"Just friends."

[Light Touch]

...and its use to end dating or a relationship.

Discuss. :D

[housecat]

It means you're really doing it on the side.



:ontome:


:jk:

[Mokey]

No shes not.

[housecat]

me --->:slap:<--- Gwen

[Light Touch]

Oops, I should have been more clear.

I mean, when someone says, "I like you, but I want to just be friends." And there is an established dating situation and/or relationship.

What the fuck is that all about.

I didn't mean the other: "Oh, no, we're just friends."

[scott]

The people who I said I never wanted to speak to again I'm friends with. And the people I've agreed to be friends with I don't speak to. :gotme:

[housecat]

It means he/she's not interested and it's a nice way of saying that.

<------- said it many times.

[housecat]

Originally posted by scott
The people who I said I never wanted to speak to again I'm friends with. And the people I've agreed to be friends with I don't speak to. :gotme:
Strange. Me too.

[Light Touch]

Originally posted by housecat
It means he/she's not interested and it's a nice way of saying that.

&lt;------- said it many times.

But how does that happen after you've already been dating? You're not interested...anymore?

[blewmymindblank]

Originally posted by housecat
It means he/she's not interested and it's a nice way of saying that.

&lt;------- said it many times.

it can mean more than that though, I obviously don't know the circumstances, but sometimes, no matter how much you like someone else, it's just easier to be friends

[Wickity]

Translation is:
"I don't want to date you, but I don't want to hurt your feelings"

[madeofwires]

:hmm:

[glitchwillis]

saying "i just want to be friends" = I'm not attracted to you, but you're kinda cool so lets just be cool like that.

[Mokey]

People loose interest sometimes, or find a new one. Maybe they just like you better as a friend, not a lover. Ive had guys Ive dated that have been better friends than boyfriends. Most of the time its just an easy way of breaking things off, and you probably wont hear from them for a while.

[Mokey]

Originally posted by Wickity
Translation is:
&quot;I don't want to date you, but I don't want to hurt your feelings&quot;

:werd:

[housecat]

Originally posted by Light Touch


But how does that happen after you've already been dating? You're not interested...anymore?
:yes: Maybe after dating a lil the person realizes it's just not what they're looking for or they've lost interest.

[scott]

Originally posted by housecat

Strange. Me too.

With people you truly cared about,
I think it has something to do with having that deep love/connection with some poeple that changes but never dies.

[The Drifter]

I dont think Ive ever got the "just freinds". Its always been stop stalking me you freak or Sir you must matain a distance of 100 yards from this person.








:jk:

[housecat]

Originally posted by Wickity
Translation is:
&quot;I don't want to date you, but I don't want to hurt your feelings&quot;
Precisely

[BuzzCat]

Originally posted by housecat

:yes: Maybe after dating a lil the person realizes it's just not what they're looking for or they've lost interest.

Most def. That happend with my fiance and I. We both changed, and so did our interests. We're still friends though.

[Light Touch]

Well, to personalize this a little...

...I've been getting this line from women lately, but in situations that seem a little strange to use it. Like, shortly after conversations about desiring sex with each other, being intimate, or doing other things that seem to contradict the "friends" label.

I understand if you haven't really established something with someone, you could use that and it would make sense. "We've been seeing each other, but I think we'll work better as friends."

What if the person has stated or implied a stronger connection, then this line comes out?

[housecat]

:werd: I'm still friends with almost all my ex's. We randomly even call each other and hang out occasionally. Sometimes, the dating thing doesn't work out but if there was a connection and depending on things a friendship is almost always possible. I heart all my ex's as friends but we just didn't work out in a relationship.

[lupitanahsee]

Originally posted by Light Touch
Oops, I should have been more clear.

I mean, when someone says, &quot;I like you, but I want to just be friends.&quot; And there is an established dating situation and/or relationship.

What the fuck is that all about.

I didn't mean the other: &quot;Oh, no, we're just friends.&quot;

it means they find you nice, but don't want to sleep with you or can't see themselves in it for the long run with you.

[uberclkgtr]

Originally posted by Light Touch
What if the person has stated or implied a stronger connection, then this line comes out?

Well, maybe the girl is attracted to you, but something else makes dating you not feasible. :shrug:

[housecat]

I agree with James and Kim. Not everyone wants/needs the same thing out of a relationship. It doesn't mean there's something WRONG it just means it's not what the other person is looking for in a relationship.

[evey]

Originally posted by Mokey
Most of the time its just an easy way of breaking things off, and you probably wont hear from them for a while.

How about never hearing from them again.

[Mokey]

Originally posted by uberclkgtr


Well, maybe the girl is attracted to you, but something else makes dating you not feasible. :shrug:

I was in a situation like that with my current boyfriend. I told him I thought we should "just be friends", because I had just got out of a serious relationship and I thought I was rushing into something too soon. I freaked out. Anyway we hooked back up a few weeks later, and we are still together... almost three years.
:smooch:

[scott]

Originally posted by Mokey


I was in a situation like that with my current boyfriend. I told him I thought we should &quot;just be friends&quot;, because I had just got out of a serious relationship and I thought I was rushing into something too soon. I freaked out. Anyway we hooked back up a few weeks later, and we are still together... almost three years.
:smooch:

I remember , he was the biggest dick that week.

Happy for you guys


:D

[housecat]

Me too. I think Gwen and Zach are the most awsome couple ever. Your ass better invite me to the wedding hooker. Missy and Jerad are tied with them BTW.

[Light Touch]

Good feedback, y'all... Thanks. :thumbsup:

[housecat]

:raveon:

[Hitoi]

I don't want to touch this thread with a 28,467 foot pole. This has been the story of my life for the last year.

Okay, that's enough opening up for me. Back to being sarcastic bitchy Ali :D

[punkasschikadee]

Originally posted by Light Touch
Well, to personalize this a little...

...I've been getting this line from women lately, but in situations that seem a little strange to use it. Like, shortly after conversations about desiring sex with each other, being intimate, or doing other things that seem to contradict the &quot;friends&quot; label.

I understand if you haven't really established something with someone, you could use that and it would make sense. &quot;We've been seeing each other, but I think we'll work better as friends.&quot;

What if the person has stated or implied a stronger connection, then this line comes out?

maybe these girls are just big flirts :shrug:

[Mokey]

Originally posted by housecat
Me too. I think Gwen and Zach are the most awsome couple ever. Your ass better invite me to the wedding hooker. Missy and Jerad are tied with them BTW.

:smooch: Thanks! Tied how?

[scott]

Originally posted by housecat
Me too. I think Gwen and Zach are the most awsome couple ever. Your ass better invite me to the wedding hooker. Missy and Jerad are tied with them BTW.

I remember they both got belligerent drunk one night(yes very vague) and I had to seperate them into different cars on the way home. Half way home Gwen gets a little woozy so I pull over on 267 as she opens up my door to :nixo: Zach's hysterically laughing on the side of the road as he relieves himself. All while traffics flying by.

At that moment I knew they were both hopelessly retarded for eachother.

[housecat]

Originally posted by Mokey


:smooch: Thanks! Tied how?
Missy and Jerad rock as much as you and Zach do.

[housecat]

Originally posted by scott


I remember they both got belligerent drunk one night(yes very vague) and I had to seperate them into different cars on the way home. Half way home Gwen gets a little woozy so I pull over on 267 as she opens up my door to :nixo: Zach's hysterically laughing on the side of the road as he relieves himself. All while traffics flying by.

At that moment I knew they were both hopelessly retarded for eachother.
OMG, that's awsome. I swear those 2 are soulmates or something. AWSOME

[Electric Head]

Originally posted by scott
The people who I said I never wanted to speak to again I'm friends with. And the people I've agreed to be friends with I don't speak to. :gotme:

YES! What's up w/ that? seriously, what?

[Mokey]

Originally posted by housecat

Missy and Jerad rock as much as you and Zach do.

No doubt!!!

[Electric Head]

Originally posted by dabigfro99
I dont think Ive ever got the &quot;just freinds&quot;. Its always been stop stalking me you freak or Sir you must matain a distance of 100 yards from this person.








:jk:

:haha: And with that fro....I can see this.......youre funny

[Mokey]

Originally posted by scott


I remember they both got belligerent drunk one night(yes very vague) and I had to seperate them into different cars on the way home. Half way home Gwen gets a little woozy so I pull over on 267 as she opens up my door to :nixo: Zach's hysterically laughing on the side of the road as he relieves himself. All while traffics flying by.

At that moment I knew they were both hopelessly retarded for eachother.

:touchmymonkey: :slap:

[Matt Sanborn]

Originally posted by housecat
:werd: I'm still friends with almost all my ex's. We randomly even call each other and hang out occasionally. Sometimes, the dating thing doesn't work out but if there was a connection and depending on things a friendship is almost always possible. I heart all my ex's as friends but we just didn't work out in a relationship.


PLUR- this is the mature, adult way to deal with past flames

[Matt Sanborn]

" A woman knows within 5 minutes of meeting a man if she is going to sleep with him or not"- Chris Rock

[scott]

Originally posted by Matt Sanborn



PLUR- this is the mature, adult way to deal with past flames

I guess I should cut out that flaming bag o poo on the doorstep nonsense.

[lupitanahsee]

Originally posted by Matt Sanborn
&quot; A woman knows within 5 minutes of meeting a man if she is going to sleep with him or not&quot;- Chris Rock




:bowasian:

[Shawn_E]

Originally posted by BuzzCat


Most def. That happend with my fiance and I. We both changed, and so did our interests. We're still friends though.

sorry to hear that...:sadblue: so that means there's a chance for me!!! :raveon:

[housecat]

Who let Sanborn in this forum?!

*rubs eyes*

I'm all kinds of mature n stuff dawg. :plur:

[housecat]

Originally posted by Matt Sanborn
&quot; A woman knows within 5 minutes of meeting a man if she is going to sleep with him or not&quot;- Chris Rock
Chris Rock is a wise man.

I know in 3.

[Matt Sanborn]

Mature.....hmmmm......maybe.......plurtastic indeed

[Matt Sanborn]

Originally posted by housecat

Chris Rock is a wise man.

I know in 3.

I do believe that makes you officially perverted

[housecat]

so?

[Matt Sanborn]

roight

perverted people I can relate to

[housecat]

Yep, mature I am oh yes.

:evilred:

[Matt Sanborn]

being mature is hellacool

DnBntequila r 2

[housecat]

*waits for Matt to get it*

Tequila shots like whoa. We are all doing shots tonight then drunkstepping for Kirk :) Matt dances to dnb. I shit you not ;)

[Mokey]

YOU'RE DOING SHOTS OF TEQUILA?

[housecat]

Fucking right. Hopefully, I won't beat anyone up.

:evilred:

[Matt Sanborn]

oh I got it

fixed mine too

[Light Touch]

Originally posted by housecat

Chris Rock is a wise man.

I know in 3.

Unless you change your mind, eh? :rolleyes:


:D :D :D :D

[housecat]

Originally posted by Light Touch


Unless you change your mind, eh? :rolleyes:


:D :D :D :D

:haha: :haha: :haha:


Matt, you're slackin boy. For that you buy the shots :)


Awwwwwwww plurry plur plur plur

[Matt Sanborn]

*in best Ton Loc voice* Lets do it

[pojimoko]

Originally posted by housecat
:werd: I'm still friends with almost all my ex's. We randomly even call each other and hang out occasionally. Sometimes, the dating thing doesn't work out but if there was a connection and depending on things a friendship is almost always possible. I heart all my ex's as friends but we just didn't work out in a relationship.

werdz. me too. i'm very VERY close to my ex's.

i don't know what i'd do without the 4am "can u come pick me up or can i come over :crying2:" phone calls that i get from my ex's every 3 or 4 months. sometimes when the moon and stars align, and boyfriend problems coincide, i have an ex-wife sleeping on my couch and an ex-girlfriend in my bed (just sleeping mind you). i guess i'm just a sucker for a pretty face, some tears and a sob story... oh, and stray cats too.

i'm closest to my ex that i was dating 3 years ago. everytime she has boyfriend problems, i get a marriage proposal, which is a joke... that is of course, unless i say "yes", then i'm sure it wouldn't be a joke anymore. one of these days i'm going to slip up and say "yes"... if i'm not careful.

won't somebody SAVE ME!?!?! :scared:

[scott]

Originally posted by pojimoko




i'm closest to my ex that i was dating 3 years ago. everytime she has boyfriend problems, i get a marriage proposal, which is a joke... that is of course, unless i say &quot;yes&quot;, then i'm sure it wouldn't be a joke anymore. one of these days i'm going to slip up and say &quot;yes&quot;... if i'm not careful.

won't somebody SAVE ME!?!?! :scared:

BROTHA I FEEL YA! I got one of those lastnight.

[blitzm]

The problem that arises from asking ourselves that inital question of "what does let's just be friends" really means is that we tend to trivialize the person's true feelings. Everyone has different reasons for what they say and feel at any given moment. I have said the same words to people that I did like more than friends, but I just was not ready for a relationship of any sort. I've given myself so many headaches throughout the years trying to figure out what the true meaning of this phrase means. If you really want to know, go to the source, hun! Good luck!!!! :twothumb:


~blitz

[MeowMeowKitty]

"i just wanna be friends" = i don't wanna sleep with you anymore, but i don't want you to hate me.

sad, but true.

[DeliriumDneRite]

Originally posted by scott
The people who I said I never wanted to speak to again I'm friends with. And the people I've agreed to be friends with I don't speak to. :gotme:

I think thats because the people that you really cared about are the ones that you were hurt the most by. Thats why it hurt you bad enough to say you never wanted to talk again. But after the pain goes away, those are the people that you really want in your life. The ones that you said you could still be freinds with, you probably didn't care about them enough for them to have any real staying power.

[El Magnifico]

:dphba: cuz apparently, you didn't :githd:

[Light Touch]

Originally posted by El Magnifico
:dphba: cuz apparently, you didn't :githd:

Could someone explain these to me...I haven't figured 'em out yet. :sadblue:

[Matt Sanborn]

nope- its a rule you MUST figure them out on your own.

seriously

if someone tells I will ban you from all that is dance

[The Logic Theorist]

"Friends is a word we use everyday, most of the time we use it in the wrong way, now you can look it up again and again, but the dictionary doesn't know the meaning of friends."

Basically it means she's a woman and has no idea what she wants.

[lupitanahsee]

Originally posted by El Magnifico
:dphba: cuz apparently, you didn't :githd:

:afterbuzz: :hifive:

[El Magnifico]

I can't do nuthin' for you man, Flava Flav's got problems of his own! :delirious:

[housecat]

Originally posted by DeliriumDneRite


I think thats because the people that you really cared about are the ones that you were hurt the most by. Thats why it hurt you bad enough to say you never wanted to talk again. But after the pain goes away, those are the people that you really want in your life. The ones that you said you could still be freinds with, you probably didn't care about them enough for them to have any real staying power.
I'm too hungover to say anything other than WORD. This is absolutely right IMO.

[Teck]

Sounds like an easy way of saying - I dont want to be in a relationship, so lets see what happens with us from here.

[Light Touch]

Originally posted by Matt Sanborn
nope- its a rule you MUST figure them out on your own.

seriously

if someone tells I will ban you from all that is dance

GITHD = Give It To Her Deeply ?

I'm baffled on the other one.

[Teck]

Doubt anyone would confim this... Just read it in context - and see if it makes sence.

[EurotrashEve]

I want to be "just friends" can mean multiple things:

a) You scared me and are too clingy or overbearing

b) I'm not ready for commitment(maybe they just got out of a relationship not too long ago before they met you,rushed into)

c) I don't want to hurt you in the end b/c I don't see this working out in the long run.Obviously, you care more than me about this.

d) I want to date other people.

e) (if you were friends before) I don't want to ruin our friendship, I value you and respect you too much & don't want to hurt you b/c I'm known to dick males -or-females over and want to save you the trouble -or-...I'd rather keep it platonic.

f)I don't see you in the intellectual sense but, the artificial sense for lustful purposes..maybe ,I'm looking for more than a gorgeous face or bod. After talking to you, you aren't much in the personality or brains dept.

G) Maybe your track record scared him/her -or- the fact your last relationship was 2 years & you haven't dated many ppl and the ones you dated were for longer than 2 months... scares the non-commitment type of person.

H) maybe they caught you in a lie..and figured you'd deceive them in the end...whether it be cheating or pathalogical conversations. Maybe your too Jaded also.

[2cute4u]

I have this uncanny talent of repelling the guys i like... and attracting the ones i don't want... All the ones i like... "Wow, you are such a good friend! I have so much fun with you!" All the ones i just wanna be friends with... are desperatly trying to get in my pants or go on "dates." I just have realized that everyone needs to stop overanalyzing things... when it is right. It is right.

[Article One]

Originally posted by Light Touch
Oops, I should have been more clear.

I mean, when someone says, &quot;I like you, but I want to just be friends.&quot; And there is an established dating situation and/or relationship.

What the fuck is that all about.

I didn't mean the other: &quot;Oh, no, we're just friends.&quot;


in other words they are saying "i dont want to tell you the real reason we stopped dating, and i dont want to hurt you, so this is the easiest way to go about it."

[housecat]

:werd:

[Article One]

Originally posted by EurotrashEve
I want to be &quot;just friends&quot; can mean multiple things:

a) You scared me and are too clingy or overbearing

b) I'm not ready for commitment(maybe they just got out of a relationship not too long ago before they met you,rushed into)

c) I don't want to hurt you in the end b/c I don't see this working out in the long run.Obviously, you care more than me about this.

d) I want to date other people.

e) (if you were friends before) I don't want to ruin our friendship, I value you and respect you too much &amp; don't want to hurt you b/c I'm known to dick males -or-females over and want to save you the trouble -or-...I'd rather keep it platonic.

f)I don't see you in the intellectual sense but, the artificial sense for lustful purposes..maybe ,I'm looking for more than a gorgeous face or bod. After talking to you, you aren't much in the personality or brains dept.

G) Maybe your track record scared him/her -or- the fact your last relationship was 2 years &amp; you haven't dated many ppl and the ones you dated were for longer than 2 months... scares the non-commitment type of person.

H) maybe they caught you in a lie..and figured you'd deceive them in the end...whether it be cheating or pathalogical conversations. Maybe your too Jaded also.


see, this is exactly what im talking about. it never really means "i just want to be friends." there is more to that story, and quite personally, i think its the most ridiculously immature cop-out when breaking it off with someone.

[evey]

Indeed it is. I've never bought it, and I never will.

[Article One]

well, i mean, ive been thru a case or two where the girl really just wanted me as a friend...and it wasnt some line... and we are STILL friends..

but for the most part, like 99.999999% of the time...its just a euphemism for what they really would like to say.

[evey]

I have remained friends with NONE of my exes. A few here and there I've talked to off and on though. Although I haven't spoken to any of them in over 2 years.

[2cute4u]

It seems the only reason exes stay friends is because...
A. One or more parties still wanna, uh... bone.
B. One or more parties still wanna be together...
So, it is best not to stay friends...

[BlondiElaina]

There are lots of explainations of "Just Friends"
*You thought you liked them, but not enough, which normally really means being Just Friends
*The we are just fuck Friends
* Or the "Mind your own fucking business, were Just Friends"
*Or the someone messed up and now we have to be "Just Friends" but we still have sex and get jealous of each other

That last one is a bitch and I dont know why the fuck it has to exist but it does.

[2cute4u]

Originally posted by BlondiElaina
There are lots of explainations of &quot;Just Friends&quot;
*You thought you liked them, but not enough, which normally really means being Just Friends
*The we are just fuck Friends
* Or the &quot;Mind your own fucking business, were Just Friends&quot;
*Or the someone messed up and now we have to be &quot;Just Friends&quot; but we still have sex and get jealous of each other

That last one is a bitch and I dont know why the fuck it has to exist but it does.

Yeah... the last one sucks... i hate the last one.

[badkitty3804]

Sometimes you just wanna be friend with somebody. :shrug:

That or 'friends with benefits'. No strings attached love. :yes:

[BlondiElaina]

That gets me... Why cant you just get over what happened and love each other like normal people! Blah... Im gettin a little personal.

hummm who messed up? :sillyme:

[tranKwilized]

Damn.. Why is it so hard for people to realize that sometimes shit just doesn't work? Dating is just that - dating. Not marriage. you are not contractually obligated to a person just because you date them for a while. The whole dating process involves getting to know one another and gauging your compatibility over a period of time. Maybe things get better, maybe they get worse, maybe nothing changed.. Only one of the above will lead to a lasting relationship. If it's not going anywhere, than you end it and hopefully still remain freinds. You should consider yourself lucky at that point that the person didn't tell you to catch a brick. I'm getting so sick of dating being such a set in stone thing. By all rights, you should be able to 'date' more than one person at a time. But ask around and see how many females feel that's an acceptable situation. There should always be some sort of commitment, on some level.. but dating and dating exclusively are 2 different things that should be at some point specified. I could go on about this for hours...
[/rant]

[the sex molesters]

only time i ever used the "just friends" line is when i really wanted a different girl but the chick i was with was totally in love with me and wouldn't leave no matter how much i ignored her...... funny thing is that after i said that she asked if we could still fuck anyway.... i'm all like, "yeah sure." and then i proceeded to avoid her for the next couple of months while i dated another girl..... dude that girl was all about me it kinda freaked me out.....

[2cute4u]

Andy just wants girls to treat him like shit and walk all over him...

[the sex molesters]

well that's what i'm used to. it's scary when a girl really really loves me. i don't know how to deal with it.

[tranKwilized]

I like a girl with an attitude. Keeps things spicy :D

[EurotrashEve]

I got teh diva bitch attitude.
That and I'm silly.just ask Mario how much I make him laugh with "the daily life of eve stories"
- Word of advice if they are psychotic run..don't try to" be friends" w/ them it only gets worse(trust me) I ended up with the nastiest ex stalker and placing a restraining order b/c of those words.
- Yet ,I have lots of ex's that are best friends..I have no feelings for.they are like brothers to me in the protective sense.

[BestBoardHooker]

Originally posted by Light Touch


But how does that happen after you've already been dating? You're not interested...anymore?

you can fall out of love (or like) just as easily as you fell into it. sometimes people change and they're no longer the person you originally fell for. sometimes two people simply grow apart. it doesn't make it any one person's fault. I mean, many times it's actually for the best. but I don't know. my last ex and I ended it with deciding to be "just friends" and now we don't talk anymore...but then again, that too is probably for the best!

[Light Touch]

Originally posted by tranKwilized
Damn.. Why is it so hard for people to realize that sometimes shit just doesn't work? Dating is just that - dating. Not marriage. you are not contractually obligated to a person just because you date them for a while. The whole dating process involves getting to know one another and gauging your compatibility over a period of time. Maybe things get better, maybe they get worse, maybe nothing changed.. Only one of the above will lead to a lasting relationship. If it's not going anywhere, than you end it and hopefully still remain freinds. You should consider yourself lucky at that point that the person didn't tell you to catch a brick. I'm getting so sick of dating being such a set in stone thing. By all rights, you should be able to 'date' more than one person at a time. But ask around and see how many females feel that's an acceptable situation. There should always be some sort of commitment, on some level.. but dating and dating exclusively are 2 different things that should be at some point specified. I could go on about this for hours...
[/rant]

:werd:

[badkitty3804]

I'm friends with almost every ex. I like to become best friends with my BF's..and I'm not going to throw away a great friendship because the status of our relationship changed.

[KiKiXOXO]

What about friends with privileges?

[EurotrashEve]

I'm friends with all my ex's minus one.....I also like to build a friendship up before getting into a relationship. It makes you respect the person more + it let's you know where you and the other person , stand about certain issues dealing with trust ..pet peeves..etc.. it makes the bond stronger. Even if it doesn't work out you'll still have a kick ass friend left. Sex is fabulous but, it's not what you should base a relationship on.

[Light Touch]

I stay friends with my exes because I like to hook up with them. :shrug:

[blitzm]

haha been there and done that...it gets old fast. I'm only good friends with one of my exes which is great since we were good friends we messed up and went out! haha You need some new blood!


:tarvis:

[blitzm]

woopse.... * before we messed up and.....* :sillyme:

[Shinin*Sta]

Originally posted by KiKiXOXO
What about friends with privileges?
:haha: Gotta love that! The only problem is that if you actually develop a real relationship, shit can get weird. You gotta explain to the friend that it's gotta stop or whatever **rainting, someone make me shut up***

[sirenofthestorm]

Well lesbians NEVER break up....but i never got the benefit of after break up sex. just the drama and headaches of dealing with my ex's problems and issues. :lame:

[Article One]

Originally posted by djinergy
only time i ever used the &quot;just friends&quot; line is when i really wanted a different girl but the chick i was with was totally in love with me and wouldn't leave no matter how much i ignored her...... funny thing is that after i said that she asked if we could still fuck anyway.... i'm all like, &quot;yeah sure.&quot; and then i proceeded to avoid her for the next couple of months while i dated another girl..... dude that girl was all about me it kinda freaked me out.....


we read ALL about it, remember? Betrayed (http://www.buzzlife.com/mssg_brd/showthread.php?s=&threadid=9232)

[the sex molesters]

no that was a different girl, dude.

[the sex molesters]

totally different situation.


btw, get off my case, ass.

[Shinin*Sta]

:falatic:
A'ight, a'ight guys, let's try to keep this impersonal. This forum's supposed to be for advice, support, etc., not to jump down each other's throats.

[Article One]

hahaha....you just have no idea man.



give it time.

[hive_tyrant]

Well Obvously when some one say I just wanna be friends It means hit me over the head with a pipe and have your way with me, then doesn't It... yup. Thats what it means.

[2cute4u]

I just know that in my current situation... the word friend... is a piecing, horrible, word... ICK.

[The Drifter]

Hey babe something wrong.

[2cute4u]

With Me?

[tranKwilized]

Originally posted by 2cute4u
With Me?

-No Comment-

:D

[The Drifter]

Originally posted by 2cute4u
With Me?


:yes:

[2cute4u]

I am just having a little problem with the male gender right now... :sadblue: :kick:

[tranKwilized]

Let me know if you need counseling. We can discuss it in a dimly lit room over champagne :yes:

[2cute4u]

No dinner first?

[tranKwilized]

If you trust my cooking, than :yes:

[Mandaba]

:no: dont do it. this is the guy who pulled a brownie out of his pocket and proceeded to eat it.

[badkitty3804]

:lameflirt:


:D

[BestBoardHooker]

Originally posted by djinergy
well that's what i'm used to. it's scary when a girl really really loves me. i don't know how to deal with it.

damn I know what you mean! well, change the girl to a guy...

but yeah, my boy right now treats me like a princess and while it feels great to finally have someone like that in my life I just don't know how to handle it when there's no drama...

guess I'll have to learn fast. I don't want to loose this one. He's a keeper!:lessthanthree:

[DJDefcon]

a. you are bored with the sex
b. you are bored with the person
c. you found somebody else
d. you found somebody else and the sex is better


hmmmmmmmmmmmmm

[ArceB]

its tough making the transition from bf to just friend. a lot of letting go.

[thehousekeeperz]

Originally posted by Light Touch
Oops, I should have been more clear.

I mean, when someone says, &quot;I like you, but I want to just be friends.&quot; And there is an established dating situation and/or relationship.

What the fuck is that all about.

I didn't mean the other: &quot;Oh, no, we're just friends.&quot;


the person may have realized that they really truely just like you more as a friend. personally, i value a friendship much higher than a bf/gf type relationship.


they could be trying to save the friend before it gets all messed up.

[Light Touch]

Hahaha...guess I know what "just friends" means now. :rolleyes:

Thanks for your feedback everyone -- it was most helpful.