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Albert's Mom
2004-01-02, 11:08 PM
Except for my boyfriend, my cats, and that nubile 20-something who keeps on sending me porno messages (right on!).  This scene's music is still great, but the people aren't who I'd usually associate with.  It's a shame.  There was a time when nearly everyone on any given rave bulletin board or list was pretty friendly.  I'm not throwing a pity party.  Just stating my general digust & repulsion.  With Urb naming Cubik best club and Ultraworld best one-off, this scene is far better than most people I know deserve.

candypink
2004-01-02, 11:10 PM
wow somebody's bitter. maybe you know the wrong people :shrug:

Buddafly
2004-01-02, 11:13 PM
perhaps the human race hates you just as much

Buddafly
2004-01-02, 11:15 PM
have a candy
http://lib1.store.vip.sc5.yahoo.com/lib/demotivators/candytin.jpg

candypink
2004-01-02, 11:23 PM
:haha: i bet he hates valentines day too

LadyJ
2004-01-02, 11:24 PM
gosh. did something happen to spark this? there are always good and bad people in every scene. sometimes it takes awhile to find people you can connect with.

Buddafly
2004-01-02, 11:25 PM
it's a her kate...

zartan
2004-01-02, 11:30 PM
hmm, becky's comment is the type of thing babs is talking about, i bet (the 1st one)...

people are a bit touchy lately.

well for the record i think alberts mom is fucking hilarious. cheers to your participation.

candypink
2004-01-02, 11:34 PM
oh..from the avatar i just assumed that it was a guy...my bad

Buddafly
2004-01-02, 11:37 PM
that is a generic response to a generic statement. a joke if you will.

blah... if you think things suck, change them. don't bitch about them. that's all I'm saying. a strong person takes what bothers them and does something about it. I don't care if the person says that they're not digging for attention. if you post it out like this, you're looking for a boost. :shrug: I haven't said anything about this chick to date- and I'd say it to anybody else that posted something like that too.

if you hate something, shouldn't it be allowed to hate you back?

zartan
2004-01-02, 11:40 PM
i'm not necessarily trying to call you out becky - just saying that i've been a serious post-whore this week and i have seen babs (alberts mom) on various threads and i'm guessing this opinion of hers is due to the way people have been thin skinned and piling on to others.

not that its really a big deal (at all)... or even that i'm right.

Buddafly
2004-01-02, 11:43 PM
eh... felt the need to put reason behind what I said, so it doesn't look like I'm saying things for no reason.

zartan
2004-01-02, 11:44 PM
werd.

coming to cubik 2nite?

Buddafly
2004-01-02, 11:51 PM
yessir!

you?

badkitty3804
2004-01-03, 12:17 AM
I think ms. babs is the cat's meow. :yes:
and I :affection: my beckster....

Where's the love guys? :puppydog:

zartan
2004-01-03, 12:27 AM
heading out now.

Albert's Mom
2004-01-03, 01:01 AM
Originally posted by zartan74
i'm not necessarily trying to call you out becky - just saying that i've been a serious post-whore this week and i have seen babs (alberts mom) on various threads and i'm guessing this opinion of hers is due to the way people have been thin skinned and piling on to others.

not that its really a big deal (at all)... or even that i'm right.

actually, the buzzboard has been quite kind. i can take some shit.  i was just venting.  there are some horrible people amongst us.  i can be sarcastic.  but someone in another group said that i was so ugly that even though i was *paying* for sex, my boyfriend still wasn't fucking me.  this is someone i've never attacked, but has recently had it in for me.  I've attempted to be PLUR'ly, but i'm off of my medication, and that was just the lowest blow ever. 

i told my boyfriend and he's absolutely LIVID.  he said that we should just forget about all of these people.  right now, i really don't even want to go to any fucking club, because these fucked up people have fucked up standards of attractiveness.  

this person is an aspiring DJ.  i told him that ALL gloves were off as of today.  it's not important *who* this person is.  but as spikey as I can get, i'd never say anything like that.

thanks for listening to the rant.

 

 

Albert's Mom
2004-01-03, 01:04 AM
Originally posted by zartan74
heading out now. i was just robbed recently, and the people i've been meeting lately are incredibly nasty.  i really don't feel mentally up to going out.  i hope that the bouncers over there have stopped being c*nts.

badkitty3804
2004-01-03, 01:06 AM
Just shrug it off sweety. As many complete douchebags as there are in this scene (as well as any other), the truly amazing people make it all worth dealing with. :shrug:

Albert's Mom
2004-01-03, 01:18 AM
Originally posted by badkitty3804
Just shrug it off sweety. As many complete douchebags as there are in this scene (as well as any other), the truly amazing people make it all worth dealing with. :shrug:

No doubt!  But good people are fewer and farther between.  Plus there appears to be a lot more unprovoked hostility.  Like what?  A hint my friend: the boyfriend of the hawker of the sex wares is my verbal attacker.  And this was after i posted her link to many women's lists, etc.  I don't even know why the fuck I bother to be decent.  Fuck them all. 

I loathe people "talking about the old days", but this shit didn't happen as often back then, if at all.

Oh well, enuf venting.  That candy picture made my day. It doesn't take much to keep me happy.

 

Albert's Mom
2004-01-03, 01:30 AM
Originally posted by badkitty3804
I think ms. babs is the cat's meow. :yes:
and I :affection: my beckster....

Where's the love guys? :puppydog:

thanks for the kindness.  i wasn't fishing for compliments; all i ask is that i be treated like a human being.  if I want abuse; I won't go to a club, I get enuf of that at work!

 

tweekylalala
2004-01-03, 03:19 AM
Albert's Mom, I totally agree....but its not the whole scene. If you look closely, you can find some really cool peeps, but definitely not on this board

Wickity
2004-01-03, 03:43 AM
:wtf:

badkitty3804
2004-01-03, 10:31 AM
Anything you do in life, you'll come around people that give you a hard time. Learn to shrug it off or life is going to be 10 times more difficult. There are some truly amazing people on and off the board, it's just a matter of meeting them. Then there are the ones that have 'online personalities'. Not everyone that gives you a hard time on here is really like that in real life. In the end, it's just a message board...

:smooch:

Just give it right on back to people.

El Magnifico
2004-01-03, 12:40 PM
:werd: There are shitheads in every walk of life...every demographic...from ravers, to police, to school teachers, the PTA, church...shitheads are everywhere...no "scene" holds the patent for being shitty.

badkitty3804
2004-01-03, 01:03 PM
Well, except for 'scat fetish' people. :shrug:

Muramasa
2004-01-03, 01:59 PM
Originally posted by badkitty3804
Well, except for 'scat fetish' people. :shrug:

I hear they make the BEST cheese croissants though.:drool:

badkitty3804
2004-01-03, 02:06 PM
:nixo: I hope they wash their hands first. :chilly:

A.J.
2004-01-03, 02:09 PM
I hate the rat race :shrug:

Bunny
2004-01-03, 04:52 PM
About 90% of the people I hung out with last year at Buzz don't show up for Cubik. It is weird losing contact with people that you hung out with every Friday and Saturday. I have come to Cubik several times since it's reopening and I can see many differences in it from last year. For the better?? I don't know, I miss my friends because they were what made Buzz so much fun. I am happy that it is back and look forward to making new friends. The vibe in Nations has been the best for any club I have been to, for example the D.C. Tunnel and Insomnia and all the clubs here in Richmond (they really suck).

binger
2004-01-03, 04:59 PM
Originally posted by candypink
wow somebody's bitter. maybe you know the wrong people :shrug:

or maybe she might need a hug

punkasschikadee
2004-01-03, 05:00 PM
Originally posted by El Magnifico
:werd: There are shitheads in every walk of life...every demographic...from ravers, to police, to school teachers, the PTA, church...shitheads are everywhere...no "scene" holds the patent for being shitty. \

werd up jose.... you cant expect that just because its a rave scene everyones gonna be oozing with plur. i am, but not everyone can hold up to deez gunz :angel:

Originally posted by Bunny
About 90% of the people I hung out with last year at Buzz don't show up for Cubik. It is weird losing contact with people that you hung out with every Friday and Saturday. I have come to Cubik several times since it's reopening and I can see many differences in it from last year. For the better?? I don't know, I miss my friends because they were what made Buzz so much fun. I am happy that it is back and look forward to making new friends. The vibe in Nations has been the best for any club I have been to, for example the D.C. Tunnel and Insomnia and all the clubs here in Richmond (they really suck).

i agree some things have changed but i try to not concentrate on the old days... change is good sometimes, and things always do (change) so make the best of it! :woot:

Bunny
2004-01-03, 05:11 PM
The biggest difference of all is that I am not going up there with my husband any more. He at that time was my best friend, we just broke up recently, and it feels weird going to Nations without him because that was our place to go every freakin' Friday last year. I still love the club and I am so happy that they reopened it, but I have mixed emotions about it.

punkasschikadee
2004-01-03, 05:18 PM
aww... im sorry, that is intense. :sok:

Bunny
2004-01-03, 05:59 PM
Thank you so much for the support. :D It helps to talk about it.

Jungleluv09
2004-01-03, 06:18 PM
Originally posted by Buddafly
that is a generic response to a generic statement. a joke if you will.

blah... if you think things suck, change them. don't bitch about them. that's all I'm saying. a strong person takes what bothers them and does something about it. I don't care if the person says that they're not digging for attention. if you post it out like this, you're looking for a boost. :shrug: I haven't said anything about this chick to date- and I'd say it to anybody else that posted something like that too.

if you hate something, shouldn't it be allowed to hate you back?


:werd: I agree completely. I can't stand it when I'm trying to have fun and someone starts talking my ear off steadily complaining. Maybe you're trying to vent about something that pissed you off. I don't think just complaining about it is not very productive, unless you're putting it into a suggestion box. I learned that many things in this world aren't written in stone. Is something bothering you? DO something about it. Don't talk shit. You're pissing me off!

DeAtHmOnGeR bEaR
2004-01-03, 07:25 PM
Originally posted by badkitty3804
Just shrug it off sweety. As many complete douchebags as there are in this scene (as well as any other), the truly amazing people make it all worth dealing with. :shrug:

You know what I like to do when someone says something mean or uncalled for???

:smooch::sok::delirious::yes:

Yay! Come back with something positive, and if you can manage it, funny! Don't let people get under your skin. It's not worth being bitter or angry about :no:

:smooch:

DeAtHmOnGeR bEaR
2004-01-03, 07:25 PM
Originally posted by punkasschikadee
\

werd up jose.... you cant expect that just because its a rave scene everyones gonna be oozing with plur. i am, but not everyone can hold up to deez gunz :angel:


If I were half as PLURRY as you are, I'd be perfect :lessthanthree:

shyann266
2004-01-03, 08:21 PM
so funny.....i've been around so freaking long i guess that it just seems like the cycle starts over and over again depending on how long you've been in the scene...i went through the i love this scene, i hate this scene, i'm so jaded, to who gives a shit, to where i am now and back again so many times its unbelievable...people come and go so quickly i'm just glad to know the people that have been on this ride as long as i have....and of course all the newer babies out there.

Buddafly
2004-01-03, 08:56 PM
[off topic]

ANNE!!! long time no post!

I think I may have seen you last night, but was moving to fast to say hi :smooch:
[/off topic]

KimmyMeow
2004-01-03, 08:58 PM
Originally posted by Buddafly
perhaps the human race hates you just as much

why do people hate?

KimmyMeow
2004-01-03, 08:59 PM
Originally posted by binger


or maybe she might need a hug


couldnt we all use a hug from binger:D

Buddafly
2004-01-03, 09:01 PM
Originally posted by KimmyMeow


why do people hate?

wish I knew... I didn't start the thread :shrug:

shyann266
2004-01-03, 09:10 PM
nope you didn't see me....i'm still in michigan...leaving to come home though in like 8 hours or so....i can't wait...i miss everyone and everything...small town life is just not for me...

Buddafly
2004-01-03, 09:12 PM
aww... well, at least I was thinking about you!

shyann266
2004-01-03, 09:13 PM
awwww thanks sweetie pie...i'll be out and about this week and weekend...i have 3 weeks i think before school starts again...i need to get it all in at once...

Albert's Mom
2004-01-03, 10:29 PM
Originally posted by binger


or maybe she might need a hug

punkasschikadee
2004-01-04, 12:55 AM
Originally posted by Funshine


You know what I like to do when someone says something mean or uncalled for???

:smooch::sok::delirious::yes:

Yay! Come back with something positive, and if you can manage it, funny! Don't let people get under your skin. It's not worth being bitter or angry about :no:

:smooch:

:affection:

awesome.

badkitty3804
2004-01-04, 03:16 AM
Alberts Mom, Bunny....find me any given night at Cubik (hit me up on AIM to find out what night(s) I'm going) and I'll personally restore your faith in people. :yes:

the sex molesters
2004-01-04, 12:34 PM
:plur:

Albert's Mom
2004-01-05, 12:52 AM
Thank everyone for your kindness. I might be hanging out for either Goldier or Hybrid. :) xoxoxoxo

badkitty3804
2004-01-05, 12:54 AM
I'm not missing Hybrid.

Wickity
2004-01-05, 01:01 AM
:stupid:

zartan
2004-01-05, 01:01 AM
hybrid!

DeAtHmOnGeR bEaR
2004-01-05, 01:03 AM
Good lord no!
Em! I am SOOO borrowing your wig for Hybrid :yes:

Capital Zero
2004-01-05, 02:46 AM
fuck ravers...

small hands...

smell like cabbage

punkasschikadee
2004-01-05, 02:47 AM
i smell sweet like perfumes and shampoo

but the question is...

am i a raver...

doo doo do do doo doo do do

:crazyeyes:

Capital Zero
2004-01-05, 02:48 AM
no seriously

fuck ravers

they're good in bed.

Capital Zero
2004-01-05, 02:49 AM
then again, so are billy goats.

iminxtc
2004-01-05, 02:50 AM
hi babs! :smooch:

Capital Zero
2004-01-05, 02:51 AM
do not taunt happy fun babs.

punkasschikadee
2004-01-05, 02:52 AM
Originally posted by Capital Zero
no seriously

fuck ravers

they're good in bed.

i beg to differ

unless its the women were talkin about

(:jk: if this is messin up someones game)
holla

Capital Zero
2004-01-05, 02:53 AM
hahaha

don't let the spanish vanish.

word.

DeAtHmOnGeR bEaR
2004-01-05, 02:57 AM
Originally posted by Capital Zero
fuck ravers...

small hands...

smell like cabbage

Hey! I have small hands......

iminxtc
2004-01-05, 02:57 AM
i was not taunting

punkasschikadee
2004-01-05, 02:57 AM
i guess that means your a raver

*gets excited* ehh? :tarvis: i hear you guys are good in bed

DeAtHmOnGeR bEaR
2004-01-05, 02:59 AM
Oh I am, baby... I am :ANden:

Capital Zero
2004-01-05, 03:00 AM
feel my drums

punkasschikadee
2004-01-05, 03:00 AM
you mean like your balls

*waits for edit*

Capital Zero
2004-01-05, 03:02 AM
i put on my robe and wizard hat...

punkasschikadee
2004-01-05, 03:03 AM
HAAARRRRRRRRRRRRRRR

Capital Zero
2004-01-05, 03:08 AM
i'm like a bike without the seat on it...


i'll get up in that ass.

iminxtc
2004-01-05, 03:10 AM
its all about the hips!

Capital Zero
2004-01-05, 03:11 AM
when i dip you dip we dip!

DeAtHmOnGeR bEaR
2004-01-05, 03:14 AM
Oh no you didn't! :delirious:

Capital Zero
2004-01-05, 03:15 AM
oh BUTT i did... get it? BUTT?????!!!!

DeAtHmOnGeR bEaR
2004-01-05, 03:17 AM
Hardy har har


:smooch:

punkasschikadee
2004-01-05, 03:17 AM
(in like sin) :evilred:

DeAtHmOnGeR bEaR
2004-01-05, 03:18 AM
I wanna add in Sir Mix-a-lot, but I can't think of a way.

So I'll just say it.

Mix-a-lot... oh yeah...

punkasschikadee
2004-01-05, 03:18 AM
I LIKE BIG BUTTS AND I CAN NOT LIE

Capital Zero
2004-01-05, 03:18 AM
bj and the bear keep truckin

DeAtHmOnGeR bEaR
2004-01-05, 03:23 AM
Originally posted by punkasschikadee
I LIKE BIG BUTTS AND I CAN NOT LIE

YOU OTHA BROTHAS CAN'T DENY!
WHEN A GIRL WALKS IN WITH AN ITTY BITTY WAIST AND A ROUND BIG IN YO' FACE I GET SPRUNG!

punkasschikadee
2004-01-05, 03:25 AM
she knows whats up

DeAtHmOnGeR bEaR
2004-01-05, 03:27 AM
Oh yeah, baby...

I know whats up....

punkasschikadee
2004-01-05, 03:47 AM
aight sweetness... my mind finally caught up with the exhaustion in my body... :zzz: night!

DeAtHmOnGeR bEaR
2004-01-05, 03:49 AM
Me too... :smooch:

Nighty night!

mike48ride
2004-01-05, 11:29 AM
rave awn

Moebius
2004-01-05, 02:41 PM
Peace love joy and trees man.

Bunny
2004-01-05, 08:00 PM
Originally posted by badkitty3804
Alberts Mom, Bunny....find me any given night at Cubik (hit me up on AIM to find out what night(s) I'm going) and I'll personally restore your faith in people. :yes:

:afterbuzz:

Honestly, I swear I am a plurry person.

I just keep having bad luck or something. I know... think positively that's what I have been trying to do.

:D

badkitty3804
2004-01-05, 08:06 PM
I'm not sure if I'm going on Friday, I dig Goldie and all, but I will don't know if I'm going to cram myself in the rubik room all night to catch the Bit 'O Honey set. :shrug:

I'm not missing Hybid though. :drool:

So maybe I'll catch ya there ms. bunny.

Bounce
2004-01-05, 11:44 PM
betty boop

badkitty3804
2004-01-05, 11:45 PM
:confused:

Capital Zero
2004-01-05, 11:51 PM
she was good in roger rabbit

Muramasa
2004-01-06, 12:28 AM
Originally posted by Funshine
Oh yeah, baby...

I know whats up....


Hahahaha... *Boi-oi-oi-oing!*
:afterbuzz:

method
2004-01-06, 12:54 AM
i think it's still fallout from having our cloak of secrecy blown off by the media. everyone's so paranoid & withdrawn; not just on the mssg board, but i can definitely see the difference @ the party as well. let's just hope everyone chills out again...not to mention STARTS DANCING AGAIN!!!

(i couldn't BELIEVE how few ppl were getting down @ RITM; even the "breakers" sucked)

Shinin*Sta
2004-01-06, 01:35 PM
I didn't go to RITM cuz it was finals week, but I have noticed that the breakdancers haven't been around. I actually saw someone practicing in the DnB room one day and it really pissed me off! -PRACTICE AT HOME!!! feel me??

spikenova
2004-01-08, 05:08 PM
theres good and bad people wherever you go and whatever "scene" you're involved in. you just are not associating with the right people.

have faith in the human race

Sarawithanh
2004-01-08, 05:10 PM
[i]I actually saw someone practicing in the DnB room one day and it really pissed me off! -PRACTICE AT HOME!!! feel me?? [/B]

get over it. people go out to the club TO DANCE. dont get pissed off just cause you may or may not be able to breakdance.

PLUR!

lowdogg
2004-01-08, 05:12 PM
i'm with sarah on this one! let them dance! the speakers are buzz are far superior to whatever music they'd blast in their homes. plus buzz has good dance floors and a good vibe and good people. who wants to dance in their home by themselves?

Shinin*Sta
2004-01-08, 05:33 PM
You're all right. I can dance, but I can't break, so I don't even try. I appreciate their motivation, I just like to see some real action. It depends on the night.

munchkin821
2004-01-08, 05:36 PM
smile it will always make you feel better