dating someone on porn sites?

[SiK BuG]

One of my ex's(and not the one from Richmond for everyone that knows about my personal life) from awhile back and me are going on our first date this wed in years. Well just now she sends me the link to this site she is trying to get on http://www.asiandivagirls.com/ warning on link. She does shoots for sites and ppl's portfilo's everyonce and awhile but it kinda bugs me. What do you all think? Sometimes I think I just want to date her again cuz she is hot, so yeah probley not a good idea right?

[Wickity]

no, not a good idea...


But send her my number.. :tarvis:

[A.J. Inx]

:no: Is this who I think it is? :no:

[SiK BuG]

this is a old g/f probley not the one ur thinking, a difrent asian ex.

[A.J. Inx]

Ah. Still, never a good idea... :no:

[orangeglow]

Dating exes..... thats a big :nono:

Something was bad enough to end it the first time.

[korbendallas]

Originally posted by SiK BuG
so yeah probley not a good idea right? [/B]

dood..have your fun and leave it at that. ;-)

[bboyneko]

Buzzlife's Asian is on asian porn sites? SWEET

[Jungleluv09]

Does she do bondage? :whip: :specialed:











J/K by the way...

[Light Touch]

Fuck her. Don't get emotional. Hot sex and nothing more. :thumbsup:

[lupitanahsee]

:stupid:

[SiK BuG]

Originally posted by Jungleluv09
Does she do bondage? :whip: :specialed:











J/K by the way...

Actually she told me she did just do a bondage shoot like a week ago.

[korbendallas]

nice!

[bboyneko]

you shouldn't discrminate against porn stars, they are just like everyone else, having random sex with strangers in many orfices while cameras roll, and getting naked and photographed so strangers can masturbate to the images.

I mena really, who of us can honestly say they have NOT had their photo taken for the masturbatory fantasies of horny strangers?

[SiK BuG]

lol, I know I sure have...I mean don't go to www.bradnaked.com

[SCHLiTZ]

do it, but remember to double-bag that shit.

[SiK BuG]

lol hey now im not the slut type and actually I lost some respect for her after I found out. It was bad enough when we were actually dating a long time ago and she worked at hooters and would call me up to wait in the parking lot beacuse some creepy guy was in there trying to follow her out. I think i'll just go out wed have some fun and leave it at that for now.....

[Wickity]

Plus, give her my number...

[Alexis]

Originally posted by bboyneko


I mena really, who of us can honestly say they have NOT had their photo taken for the masturbatory fantasies of horny strangers?

:siihp:

[zartan]

talk about a question only you can answer...! i mean, it's not a good idea if you can deal, and it is a good idea if you can, eh?

seriously this is exactly the kind of thing it makes no sense to ask others for opinions on. personally, i say go for it, unless she's literally a slut, what's the big deal about her showing off? but i can imagine that view wouldn't be shared by a lot of guys...?

[cleophite]

well, think about it this way. IF you start dating again, are you going to have a problem with her doing nude/bondage shoots, and possibly performing sexual acts with others in front of a camera? if you're a typical human being, i'm sure this might get to you after a while :shrug: just my opinion, but dating an ex who wants to move into porn is proooooooooobably not the best idea.

[DeAtHmOnGeR bEaR]

You know... a few years ago I got an offer to do an online porn site.........
The guy I was about to go out with at the time begged me not to get into it...

So I bought a shirt that said "Pornstar" instead :yes:

[punkasschikadee]

Brad! move awaaaay from the ex's!! :dammit:

[zartan]

IMO performing sexual acts with others in front of a camera is a different thing than just posing.

then again, you've gotta be cool with your girl hanging out for long periods of time naked with a photographer etc, which might not fit your plan for her...

[the sex molesters]

fuck her BEFORE she gets into the porn bidness. :wink:

[SiK BuG]

yeah I don't think im going on this date for the right reason and im pretty sure nothing serious will ever come out of it. I just got out of a relationship and need a rebond I guess and what better than a wanna be asian porn star LOL.

[the sex molesters]

fuck dating her... shiiiit.... that's one of my problems i can never figure out which girls i should try to date and which ones i should just try to get in the sack.....

learn from my mistakes, man....

[pojimoko]

Originally posted by SiK BuG
One of my ex's(and not the one from Richmond for everyone that knows about my personal life) from awhile back and me are going on our first date this wed in years. Well just now she sends me the link to this site she is trying to get on http://www.asiandivagirls.com/ warning on link. She does shoots for sites and ppl's portfilo's everyonce and awhile but it kinda bugs me. What do you all think? Sometimes I think I just want to date her again cuz she is hot, so yeah probley not a good idea right?

date her because u like her as a person.

many of those girls that do porn movies, strip and whatever, do it because they were sexually abused when they were young. for u to not date her because she does softcore porn would be cruel on your part. u just have to go into this thing realizing that ur prob gonna get ur feelings hurt a little bit... but u have to do it.

[rajdeep]

:hitit:

[Shawn_E]

Wickity best avatar ever...

[Muramasa]

Brad, I've been in your shoes... sort of. I dated a stripper once, and I wasn't comfortable with it at all. Spectacular rabid-wolf-ish type fucking is appealing at first, but it doesn't lead to a healthy relationship at all. Furthermore, dating an ex can be horrendously complicated, problematic, and depressing, especially if it ended on not-so-good terms. My advice?

Run.:bolt:

[Dizardak]

:siihp: then run

[clm_01]

Go on the date. If it isn't comfortable, then you know your answer. But don't give up on her just because she has posed for pics.

[BuzzCat]

I've actually dated two strippers - both male. It didn't really bother me, but I think if my girlfriend stripped, I'd have a bigger problem with it. Yeah i know, double standard.

[Dizardak]

i dated a girl who later became a stripper does that count?

[Light Touch]

I dated a girl that was a slut, does that count?

:D

[The Logic Theorist]

She's not a slut if she sleeps with mimes.

In my opinion, it takes a certain kind of personality for a girl to be either a stripper or do porn. That kind of personality is not one I'm interested in dating.

[korbendallas]

Originally posted by logictheorist
She's not a slut if she sleeps with mimes.

In my opinion, it takes a certain kind of personality for a girl to be either a stripper or do porn. That kind of personality is not one I'm interested in dating.

that's what I'm saying too. usually ppl that do porn have some serious issues.

[The Logic Theorist]

Not even issues.. but stripping and/or sex for profit dehumanizes you to sexuality and sensuality, and definately intimacy. These are things that to me are both personal and really important in a relationship. I don't really want to deal with someone who views them as a commodity.

[Light Touch]

Originally posted by logictheorist
Not even issues.. but stripping and/or sex for profit dehumanizes you to sexuality and sensuality, and definately intimacy. These are things that to me are both personal and really important in a relationship. I don't really want to deal with someone who views them as a commodity.

Huge :werd:

I don't see much difference between a prostitute and a stripper. Bodily fluids notwithstanding.

[Light Touch]

Originally posted by logictheorist
She's not a slut if she sleeps with mimes.

In my opinion, it takes a certain kind of personality for a girl to be either a stripper or do porn. That kind of personality is not one I'm interested in dating.

She's a slut if she can't count how many people she's been with. And she's 21.

Ya live and learn and all that, eh?

[korbendallas]

Originally posted by Light Touch


Huge :werd:

I don't see much difference between a prostitute and a stripper. Bodily fluids notwithstanding.

i think there is a big difference.

[Dizardak]

Originally posted by Light Touch
I don't see much difference between a prostitute and a stripper. Bodily fluids notwithstanding.

this is generalizing way too far. they are extreme differences between a girl that sleeps with men for money and a girl that dances for money. and frankly put one's illegal and one is not.

[Light Touch]

Originally posted by Dizardak
this is generalizing way too far. they are extreme differences between a girl that sleeps with men for money and a girl that dances for money. and frankly put one's illegal and one is not.

I don't base my moral system on state law.

And I don't date strippers. :D

[Dizardak]

so are girls that work at hooters the same as strippers and prostitues? how bout actresses and models that appear in playboy?

[Light Touch]

Originally posted by Dizardak
so are girls that work at hooters the same as strippers and prostitues? how bout actresses and models that appear in playboy?

Hmm...more or less. The difference is in degree, but not in kind.

There's something very attractive, to me, about a woman who won't do that. Strippers and the like turn me on, for sure, but I'm not trying to date them. There's too much access.

[Dizardak]

i think u'd have a different opinion if you acutally meet some of the girls you are judging. i know two girls, both complete sweethearts, who worked at hooters while in college cause that's where they could make the most waitressing and they were paying for school out of their own pockets. To say that they are of the same mindset as a prostitue is just ridiculous. I would have dated either of them had that been in the cards w/o a 2nd thought given to it.

[Light Touch]

Originally posted by Dizardak
i think u'd have a different opinion if you acutally meet some of the girls you are judging. i know two girls, both complete sweethearts, who worked at hooters while in college cause that's where they could make the most waitressing and they were paying for school out of their own pockets. To say that they are of the same mindset as a prostitue is just ridiculous. I would have dated either of them had that been in the cards w/o a 2nd thought given to it.

I'm not hating on them. It just raises that little question in my mind is all.

Hooters is borderline, but it's the awareness of being there and being a piece of meat that troubles me.

[The Logic Theorist]

Women that work at Hooters get the same dehumanizing treatment as strippers, cat calls, random gropes, lewd comments, etc. I know women who have done both of these things. In fact, I would say I've known almost more women who were strippers than who were not. Comes from growing up in New Orleans. As people they're not all bad, but I draw the line at dating them. Girl that worked at Hooters.. well it would depend on how far dehumanized she was personally.

And you're fooling yourself if you think being in Playboy is any less of an exploitation than being on a porn site or stripping. Sure it may have a reputation as a "gentlemen's" magazine, but it's still a men's magazine, and the women are still naked.

Again, that's all my opinion. Date whoever you want, but I prefer a woman who is conservative in regards to public nudity and exhibitionism.

[kirk]

paynig for live internet sex in hopes of rekindling a former flame does not qualify as getting back together.

[ggfab]

*gets all archy bunkerish*

Brad, you're a cutie. Find a nice, white girl and settle down.

*just kidn*

note to the fukkaz that wanna take this as a note to you: I'm italian- gtfouttahere

[nyhope]

Originally posted by Dizardak
i think u'd have a different opinion if you acutally meet some of the girls you are judging. i know two girls, both complete sweethearts, who worked at hooters while in college cause that's where they could make the most waitressing and they were paying for school out of their own pockets. To say that they are of the same mindset as a prostitue is just ridiculous. I would have dated either of them had that been in the cards w/o a 2nd thought given to it.

AMEN to your posts aaron!


if you are comfortable with yourself enough to pose in playboy by all means go for it. if you are a movie star and do it as a vehicle for more attention... part of what you sell as a movie star is yourself anyway.

strippers... some woman who do it have no other means of support. working at wal-mart doesn't exactly pay the same. maybe if women were paid as well as men were or if minimum wage jobs actually paid a living wage things would be different.

hooters... as a woman you get cat calls, groped, lewd comments and judged by the size of your breasts on a daily basis. damm straight that if the best way to put myself through college (and thereby be qualified to have a better job than working at hooters) was to work there i'd be over my aversion to orange very quickly.

[ravetildawn]

as they say in crooklyn, faggetaboutit!

[korbendallas]

Comes from growing up in New Orleans.

hey! I grew up there too....went back when I was older and lived in metaire. :)

[dorkface]

Originally posted by Light Touch


Huge :werd:

I don't see much difference between a prostitute and a stripper. Bodily fluids notwithstanding.
it's a pretty fine line... and there's definitely a difference....... but it's not a huge one

[ggfab]

Originally posted by ravetildawn
as they say in crooklyn, faggetaboutit!

:hifive:

[Arachnid]

Originally posted by SiK BuG
Sometimes I think I just want to date her again cuz she is hot, so yeah probley not a good idea right?


hit it from the back son...


then dont ever look back.

[bboyneko]

your kidding yourself if you think playboy is not miles above other mens magazines, posing for playboy is fa more respected than say, posing for twat quarterly.

As for nudity, whats so bad about it? And I dont see anyone pointing a gun to these womans heads to do that kind of stuff.

[EurotrashEve]

Okay, here is my advice..since I know from her perspective .
My advice to you is once an ex always an ex..there is a reason it ended and it was for the good of humanity that you two are not together.trust me after two weeks you will be see one or several of the little things to remind you what she did to get on your nerves.

[SiK BuG]

right on, yeah I still havn't talked to her to decide when to meet tomorrow so dunno what im going to do. Im pretty sure she is coming to buzz this friday too.

[EurotrashEve]

I wouldn't advise it mainly b/c if you meet up with her lust is gonna overcome logic and you'll end up making the mistake of sleeping w/ her and she might want you back ..the repeat cycle..not a fun place.

[beth]

fuck her gently.

http://www.wookieschlong.com/_flashTN/fuckher.jpg

[iminxtc]

good advice!

[lupitanahsee]

Originally posted by acid*stars
fuck her gently.



with a chainsaw.

[Light Touch]

:siihp: gently.

[Electric Head]

Originally posted by djinergy
fuck dating her... shiiiit.... that's one of my problems i can never figure out which girls i should try to date and which ones i should just try to get in the sack.....

learn from my mistakes, man....

I'll back this up...I seem to have a little prob with that too. So to err on the safe side, it's best to NOT get involved with the ex.

I just had to ask (tell, really) mine to leave, now I have to leave my apartment during finals....not a fun time. All because I didn't want the relationship to end so soon (at the time). Thus, the pimp attitude I now sport.

[Electric Head]

Originally posted by Arachnid



hit it from the back son...


then dont ever look back.

WORD IS BORN! never look back (make her do that!) Pimp dat beeotch!

[Electric Head]

Originally posted by iminxtc
good advice!

Hey cutie!

[kirk]

i have at least 50 girlfriends on internet porn sites

[bboyneko]

Originally posted by acid*stars
fuck her gently.

http://www.wookieschlong.com/_flashTN/fuckher.jpg

i LOVE that flash cartoon thanks for telling where it is..it's well animated:


http://www.wookieschlong.com/flash.html?P=fuckher&W=640&H=432

[Electric Head]

Originally posted by acid*stars
fuck her gently.

http://www.wookieschlong.com/_flashTN/fuckher.jpg

Fucking her gently, with your song, fucking her gently........with your song.......

[BuzzCat]

lol

[Electric Head]

I'm glad someone else got that.........;)

[SiK BuG]

yeah well I didn't call her, so unless she tries to get ahold of me im not going out with her tonight. thanks for advice everyone. I think the whole ex thing is what got me though.

[Electric Head]

Tell her you already had a date with some guy you met at a seedy bathhouse....that'll stop the temptations!

[SiK BuG]

haha she has known me to long to have that work. I'll see her either way at the white party this friday.

[Electric Head]

Isn't that on Sat? For Velvet Nation?

[SiK BuG]

no the winter wonder land party is for potd this friday

[Electric Head]

I just saw that.........(um, potd?)

[Capital Zero]

your avatar = 2 blinkin' 1 stinkin'

[SiK BuG]

Originally posted by DC Pimp
I just saw that.........(um, potd?)

planet of the drums

[SiK BuG]

haha she just asked me if I want a pOrn job. I should do it lol. as long as it aint gay porn.

[beth]

:no:

[punkasschikadee]

double :no:

[korbendallas]

Originally posted by SiK BuG
haha she just asked me if I want a pOrn job. I should do it lol. as long as it aint gay porn.

now you need to come up with a porn name :D

[SiK BuG]

buck nakkid

[SiK BuG]

and don't u all shake ur heads no at me u know u'd buy a copy =P

[korbendallas]

Originally posted by SiK BuG
buck nakkid

there ya go...your all set :D

[punkasschikadee]

*rocks the boat*

oh wait, thats your first movie

[DeAtHmOnGeR bEaR]

Originally posted by SiK BuG
haha she just asked me if I want a pOrn job. I should do it lol. as long as it aint gay porn.

You know.. I heard somewhere that guy porn peeps all start off in gay porn :delirious:

[beth]

:noway:

[SiK BuG]

Originally posted by Funshine


You know.. I heard somewhere that guy porn peeps all start off in gay porn :delirious:

Someone told me that before thats why I said i'd be down as long as it isn't gay porn. I couldn't really do it but she just said a job in pOrn so maybe I can film it or something lol. My digi camcorder is probley just as good quailty.

[SiK BuG]

Who wants to be in my first movie "Rock the Boat"

[Destynee]

quote:
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Originally posted by Sik Bug

Who wants to be in my first movie "Rock the Boat"
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------




:glcaroline: :glcaroline:

I'll be your main Feather Girl (is that what u call them? or are they Fluffers?) Hahhahaha as u can tell i know shit about porn! lol :smooch: :smooch:

J/K hahahaha :delirious:

[SiK BuG]

you have to come to my boat first Beth....

[beth]

i thought the deal was you were gonna come to my dorm room and take advantage of my drunk roomate's lapdances

[SiK BuG]

I was t alking to the other Beth, but i'd gotta be REAL drunk before i'd touch ur roomate.

[beth]

holy :poop:
there's another beth?!
as common as the name is, ive never met another beth before. this is weird.

[SiK BuG]

Destynee

[Alexis]

Brad: "I was asked to be in a REAL porn"

:hifive:

I <3 you

[SiK BuG]

:thumbsup: :bigpimp: :thumbsup:

[beth]

i guess drunk pimpin really does take you places.

[Destynee]

Originally posted by acid*stars
holy :poop:
there's another beth?!
as common as the name is, ive never met another beth before. this is weird.

hahaha I am the ONLY BETH! :amanda: hahahahahaha!!! Hey there acid*stars...yup there is another Beth on the board! lol :smooch:

So Brad about the boat invitation....When? Time? and what should I wear or not wear? lol :smooch: :smooch:

[SiK BuG]

Originally posted by Destynee


hahaha I am the ONLY BETH! :amanda: hahahahahaha!!! Hey there acid*stars...yup there is another Beth on the board! lol :smooch:

So Brad about the boat invitation....When? Time? and what should I wear or not wear? lol :smooch: :smooch:
i'll PM the details :thumbsup:

[DeAtHmOnGeR bEaR]

Originally posted by Destynee


hahaha I am the ONLY BETH! :amanda: hahahahahaha!!! Hey there acid*stars...yup there is another Beth on the board! lol :smooch:


Yah, yah, yah..... and there are about 50 million Laurens on the board too....

[SiK BuG]

http://www.importbb.com/files/a2m.gif

I just wanted a reason to post this lol

[SiK BuG]

and more of these need apply http://www.importbb.com/files/juan27.gif

[SiK BuG]

Originally posted by acid*stars
i guess drunk pimpin really does take you places.

:chug :bigpimp: :chug

[DeAtHmOnGeR bEaR]

Originally posted by SiK BuG
http://www.importbb.com/files/a2m.gif

I just wanted a reason to post this lol

EWWWW!!! DIRTY DICK!

Definatly one of the few things I'm not into :noway:

[punkasschikadee]

ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww!!!!!! :crying2:

[The Drifter]

Sorry but thats absulutaly hilarious.

[SiK BuG]

haha I thought so too.

[Electric Head]

Very nice!

[beth]

Originally posted by Destynee

Hey there acid*stars...yup there is another Beth on the board! lol :smooch:


go team beth
:hifive:

Originally posted by SiK BuG
http://www.importbb.com/files/a2m.gif

I just wanted a reason to post this lol

:slap:


Originally posted by SiK BuG
and more of these need apply http://www.importbb.com/files/juan27.gif

:slap: :slap:

[Electric Head]

acid*stars, I love your message below your posts. Something about it screams Tarintino. (spelling f'd up, I'm sure)

[beth]

tarantino.
and thank you
:wink:

[Electric Head]

Not to mention the avatar. Basically, you gots good style. Hope to meet you Fri.

[beth]

i've been using Niagara prints as my avatar lately. you can probalby see more stuff at juxtapoz.com. i'll definitely be there on friday. i'm on the Meet Your Buzzboarders site so you might be able to recognize me.

[Destynee]

Originally posted by SiK BuG

i'll PM the details :thumbsup:


I am STILL waiting...........

[Destynee]

Oh (Sik Bug) and that smiley...Disgusting! lol but oddly amusing lol hahaha it was somewhat *cute* but very very disgusting!!!

[Jet Pilot]

alright i have to respond to this thread cause it's ben here a while.

Yea i would defanatly go on a date and hang out and get some afterwards but don't get emotionaly involved. Just since she might do whatever it takes to make it big and that might be a conflict of intrests with you. So go have fun and get laid but DON'T GET ATTACHED AT ALL!!!

[Jet Pilot]

this is my 50th post... now i can change my damn picture thingy. i can't spell avieator.

Edit.

damn i thought it was 50.. its 75 crap

[Electric Head]

Every time I see your posts I think of System of a Down "Wide were the eyes of a horse of a jet pilot...." or something like that. You really in Laudydale? I lived there for like 4 years.

[GiveMeFunkyBeats]

hooker

[Jet Pilot]

yea i live there... i Live up off of Commercial and Dixie... Its so much warmer there right now then back home here

[Geist]

i would totally date her...then post your sex pics all over the internet for revenge....hahahha that would show her!
... oh wait...

[SiK BuG]

yea I already got nakkids of her she sent me.and now that i've talked to her more I don't know if she actually is on any sites or just wants too. I know she did strip a few times with pasty's tho. im not worried about it anymore at all

[iminxtc]

i like nakkid chics

[SiK BuG]

yeah well now u've seen em.

[iminxtc]

and i really enjoyed it

[SiK BuG]

:lick:

[Paganmouse]

deleted

[frodus]

3 of my exs were strippers and one went on a porn site....

but that was AFTER i dated them....so.....

I wouldn't....

[DJ40]

I have always wanted to date a stripper. Hmm...I'm retarded!!!:touchmymonkey:

[Light Touch]

:specialed:

[Robby9969]

Originally posted by orangeglow
Dating exes..... thats a big :nono:

Something was bad enough to end it the first time.


Oh so true...

[Electric Head]

Wow, I can't believe this thread is STILL going! This is like toss-the-ball on friends. Um, I've heard, I hate that show! (ok, it's ok)