Bdsm

[Synthetikid]

Is it really that scary?

[badkitty3804]

:no:

*whipcrack*

[lupitanahsee]

all depends on whether you're into it or not.

[zartan]

scary? if its literally scary you need another partner homes.

[buzzboy]

Originally posted by badkitty3804
:no:

*whipcrack*

i still think this http://www.world-of-smilies.de/html/images/smilies/menschen/9.gif should have been : badkitty :

[buzzboy]

http://www.world-of-smilies.de/html/images/smilies/alien/RotCol.gif

[badkitty3804]

:afterbuzz:

Dom kitty like whoa.

[iminxtc]

that thing is hanus

[badkitty3804]

What thing?

[Article One]

heinous.

[buzzboy]

Originally posted by buzzboy


i still think this http://www.world-of-smilies.de/html/images/smilies/menschen/9.gif should have been : badkitty :

this one here *snickers*

[iminxtc]

the glowy smiley.

[The Drifter]

That is weird. Looks like a smillie on acid.

[iminxtc]

yeha its not cool.

[The Drifter]

it just kinda creeps me out.

[iminxtc]

bend over....il go easy on ya!

[The Drifter]

Ok ,but I was talkin about the smillie. *bends over* hey what are these lether straps and chains for?

[iminxtc]

hehehehe freaky what deaky!

[The Drifter]

Hey put that candle down!


You wouldent!


Owww HOT HOT HOT.


Ok do it again.

[iminxtc]

that wasnt candle wax. bwhahahahahahahaha

[The Drifter]

Uh O

[Synthetikid]

what the hell have i started?


oh well, at least take pics.

[ravetildawn]

you all are freak nasties.
yum :yummy:

[The Drifter]

:tarvis:

[tigermomma]

How did I NOT see this thread? :afterbuzz:

I've delved the surface of the bondage and domination thing, and thats DEFINITELY fun, especially if your partner is someone you can completely trust and give yourself over to.

The Sadomasochistic side of it I'm not too sure about...

There are places you can go to that cater to this kind of lifestyle and they actually welcome newbies and the curious into it with open arms. When I worked at MVC I asked a couple who were looking for more hardcore stuff (which is generally not carried by the store) about it. The stuff they told me was absolutely fascinating and quite at odds with the the vision I had of those kind of things.

[badkitty3804]

I'm putting more thought into trying it everyday.

Yay bondage!

[zartan]

great point. SM = um, no. I definitely understand that some people find pain sexy but... maybe in light doses but not the whole whipping til you bleed thang.

"BD" on the other hand. Certainly a lot better than "BT".

[Moebius]

I used to make bondage toys when I was working at the Tattoo studio. We were thinking of making and selling bondage equipment at the tattoo studio. during the off season.

[badkitty3804]

Giving pain is waaaaay better than receiving. :yes:

I have sensitive skin :shrug:

[tigermomma]

Originally posted by badkitty3804
I'm putting more thought into trying it everyday.

Yay bondage!

There is something incredibly erotic about giving up control to someone else, especially when your master or mistress' goal is to bring you ultimate pleasure.  I'm very....interested....in the relationship between a master and his slave.  Thats one of the things that I asked the couple about in MVC.  So many people think that its an almost abusive relationship, however, its actually inverted from what you see.  I couldnt explain it if I tried, but the dynamic is exceedingly hot IMO. 

[ggfab]

Originally posted by tigermomma


There are places you can go to that cater to this kind of lifestyle and they actually welcome newbies and the curious into it with open arms.


It's called ALIAS....downstairs.

:delirious:

[zartan]

lol. spanker.

[tigermomma]

Another misconception.
There are BDSM fans ALL across the board. Especially people in positions of power.

[ggfab]

They congregate ...downstairs at Nation on Thursday.

j/k:D

[tigermomma]

Originally posted by zartan74
lol. spanker.

 

:patricia:

[ggfab]

*pushes tigermomma outta deh way*

I THINK he was spankin me- kthanx.

lol.

:D

[tigermomma]

:crying2:
I thought I had exclusive rights.
:ripped:

[ggfab]

:slap:

j/k'dn silly.

He was surely spankin' teh hot Tigamama booty fo sho! :patricia:

[badkitty3804]

All of you back up off the ass smacking!

:evilblue:

[ggfab]

*bends over*

:neener: nanny boo boo

[Mokey]

I had never heard "nanny nanny boo boo" until I moved here. What the hell does it mean?

[badkitty3804]

hahha...Just wait ggfab. Just wait. Your ass is mine. :evilblue:

[tigermomma]

GAWD DAMNIT!!!

GG First you steal Eric, then Emily!!

:crying2:
I will never recover

[badkitty3804]

pshaw. You're ass is special...I couldn't leave that alone.

[velvetgoldmire]

Originally posted by Mokey
I had never heard "nanny nanny boo boo" until I moved here. What the hell does it mean? It's a childish expression of taunting.

[ggfab]

Originally posted by badkitty3804
pshaw. You're ass is special...I couldn't leave that alone.

:patricia: wait til you taste mine!


:D there's enuff to go around:specialed:

[ggfab]

Originally posted by velvetgoldmire
It's a childish expression of taunting.

in a nutshell :yes:

:thumbsup: nice work!

[zartan]

for the record, i was responding to emily - calling her a spanker, as opposed to spankee - but i would excitedly apply said activity to kristen.

[tigermomma]

Originally posted by badkitty3804
pshaw. You're ass is special...I couldn't leave that alone.

*tears dry*

 

:tarvis:

[badkitty3804]

Originally posted by zartan74
for the record, i was responding to emily - calling her a spanker, as opposed to spankee - but i would excitedly apply said activity to kristen.

:badkitty: :whip:
Originally posted by tigermomma


*tears dry*

 

:tarvis:

:ANden:

[tigermomma]

Originally posted by zartan74
for the record, i was responding to emily - calling her a spanker, as opposed to spankee - but i would excitedly apply said activity to kristen.

 

Lol, you are shameless!!

 

[ggfab]

Originally posted by zartan74
for the record, i was responding to emily - calling her a spanker, as opposed to spankee - but i would excitedly apply said activity to kristen.

4 the rekkid -I was jokin.


:ontome:

[zartan]

hells yeah i am. you are plenty aware of my shameless love of your rump.

[tigermomma]

*whispers*

clean out your PM box

:D

[lupitanahsee]

Originally posted by tigermomma
How did I NOT see this thread? :afterbuzz:

I've delved the surface of the bondage and domination thing, and thats DEFINITELY fun, especially if your partner is someone you can completely trust and give yourself over to.

The Sadomasochistic side of it I'm not too sure about...

There are places you can go to that cater to this kind of lifestyle and they actually welcome newbies and the curious into it with open arms. When I worked at MVC I asked a couple who were looking for more hardcore stuff (which is generally not carried by the store) about it. The stuff they told me was absolutely fascinating and quite at odds with the the vision I had of those kind of things.

the key in all of it is having a partner you COMPLETELY trust. once that is established, you are safe in trying new things. this is definitely something not to be presented to a one night stand.

and the stereo types of these kinds of relationships being screwed up and the partners mistreating each other :yap: is total crap. most relationships that include this type of play in the bedroom are healthy (no repressed sexual tension to screw up other aspects of the relationship)
also i highly reccomend seeing Secratary :D

[tigermomma]

:werd:
I have only had one partner that I explored this with. But its definitely more difficult if you have had abuse or violence in your past.

The Master/ Slave relationship is so great because a true "Master" may treat his slave like a whore in the bedroom...humialition, domination, even S&M if its her thing, but will treat her like a queen outside of the role playing. That balance is so delicate though, even the slightest distrust will turn it into a battle of wills instead of erotic control play.

[Synthetikid]

raises eyebrow...

[tigermomma]

:ontome:








:angel:

[Synthetikid]

uh.. smilies are confusing.

[tigermomma]

So are raised eyebrows

[A.J.]

:whip::whip::whip: ?

[Milkman John]

Ok, just to chime in here...

if your not into it, then don't read on, but i know most of you will.

There has to be trust in a relationship where BDSM comes into play. has to be, otherwise things will get really fucked up, really fast. It is an extension of all things in a relationship, and it shows in how you play. there are alot of things i could ramble on about for hours and hours, but i will do this for those interested. there is a gathering every tuesday for those SERIOUSLY interested in BDSM. it is for a younger crowd, and is not an orgy. It is more of a lecture type series, and seems really good for those interested in the subject. And anyone who hates on those that like to get kinky with those they love.......i feel bad for you, really i do....

check it out and enjoy....i'll be at a few...

http://www.br.org/

[badkitty3804]

:affection:

Can I bring my glass toy? I wan't to improve our relationship :tarvis: (and I have no one else to really bring)

[badkitty3804]

Oh no shit! Black Rose! I've heard of this thing before. They were supposed to have a big convention in Ocean City, Md. not to long ago, but protesters and what not made them feel unwelcome so they said :fu: to OC.

[Milkman John]

go by yourself(although i really could use a ride).....it's better that way...

and if you have a pyrex toy, i am jealous....those things are expensive....

-john

[badkitty3804]

It was a gift from Chris and Bing on my Bday :affection:

[Milkman John]

Originally posted by badkitty3804
Oh no shit! Black Rose! I've heard of this thing before. They were supposed to have a big convention in Ocean City, Md. not to long ago, but protesters and what not made them feel unwelcome so they said :fu: to OC.


uh huh...if you are really interested, i can introduce you to people who will answer just about every question you have...and probably try to sleep with you, but the cool thing about the small amount of people i have met into it...when you say no, they listen :thumbsup:


there is actually a huge scene in DC....

[stormryder]

Absolutely on the above. Trust is the first and foremost issue in any relationship, but even more so in BDSM. BD im my mind is somewhat all right.......nothing like having your lover be in complete control of your from the intial sparkling to the height of climax when you can't do a thing about it but let them tease you, bring you to the brink, back off...and repeat. SM is for different folks that like different strokes.....I'm not into the leather stuff.

[dinferni]

Bondage is fun.