friendship is overrated

[angel_fur]

for the last 4 or 5 years of my life, i've gone through like 6 cycles of friends. i'll make really good friends and then they just go away or i go away. it just happened again and i'm left with my inverted female cock in my hand.
i don't think i'm a horrible person and i've never really done too much that would cause everyone to hate the fuck out of me. ? i just cant figure it out.
im not really sure what i'm asking here, but i feel like crap so i thought i'd share.

[A.J.]

Damn the man, save the empire :gotme:

[Sunflowergrl]

^BEST MOVE EVER!!!!

[A.J.]

:yes:

[Milkman John]

Originally posted by angel_fur
it just happened again and i'm left with my inverted female cock in my hand.



are you a tranny?

[angel_fur]

are you a tranny? [/B][/QUOTE]


no im not
but im sure i have an inverted female cock:delirious:

[roosh4]

ARe you talking about girl friends that you want something more out of it?

[badkitty3804]

Find better friends.

[ScottHenrysGirl]

yeah, if they keep disappearing i wouldn't worry too much about them...they weren't too good to begin with.

Friendship ain't overrated. Unless it's with fake friends. In which case they weren't friends to begin with. Which leaves us with our original hypothesis, friendship ain't overrated.

[badkitty3804]

A lot of people are quick to tag people with the title 'friend'. There are a lot of different levels of it. People you associate with, people you hang with at the club, and then real friends.

[ScottHenrysGirl]

maybe if you go to the hustler club on wednesday you'll make some new friends. I'll be there. And i'll be there to make sure everyone is friends with everyone. So fuck it!

[Muramasa]

Originally posted by badkitty3804
Find better friends.

:werd:

[angel_fur]

well, the recent friends that disappeared, i'd been friends with for a year and i'm pretty sure they were as real as they could be...and where am i supposed to find better friends???:confused:

[badkitty3804]

my pants.

j/k

It's not the quantity of time that you are friends. It's the quality of the friendship.

[iminxtc]

werd.

[Julierose]

Originally posted by angel_fur
well, the recent friends that disappeared, i'd been friends with for a year and i'm pretty sure they were as real as they could be...and where am i supposed to find better friends???:confused:

I'm with ya... moved 3 months ago and havent found anyone who i could even imagine calling a friend. Dont really know where to go to meet people. Thats probably why i waste so much time talking to all you people on a message board...I'm such a :loser:

[iminxtc]

i dont have many friends, they all lack the abliltiy to except change... so i dont consider them such anymore. wasting time on message boards is goodtimes

[discoball]

People will come and go out of your life, and you just have to let them. Even though friends are fun, it's not healthy to cling to another person. I've gone through so many friends myself and I do envy people who are still close wit their childhood friends, but there's nothing wrong with being an independent person.

[Fetterbug]

Originally posted by discoball
People will come and go out of your life, and you just have to let them. Even though friends are fun, it's not healthy to cling to another person. I've gone through so many friends myself and I do envy people who are still close wit their childhood friends, but there's nothing wrong with being an independent person.


:werd:

[brkbt junglegrl]

sometimes u grow apart in friendships and people drift apart, its honestly a part of growing up and life. Those who stick by ur side no matter what decisions u make, how far u move, or what life changing moves u make are the true friends. Shyste people come a dime a dozen but the true ones are hard to find.

Your problem may also be the that most of these friends are girls?? I know personally i have about 3 girls that i can say are my close friends..the rest are all guys. Girls can be bitchy and so shady...so i stick with the boys! I adore all my guy friends..and we never fight...and ive known most of them forever!! but good luck and stuff....PM me if u ever need to talk! *besos*

[DJDiversty]

Advice on friendships...Many people i know, have also met my friend Brian...Remember a friend will always be there for you, and will know your moods...If he/she says exactly what u thinking, then he's probably a good friend..and remember a friend of the opposite sex will always have feelings at some point for u...

[badkitty3804]

sometimes. I've had a lot of totally platonic friendships.

Most of my friendships have been males since the time that I was little.

[brkbt junglegrl]

Originally posted by DJDiversty
and remember a friend of the opposite sex will always have feelings at some point for u...

ummmm so not true!! i so beg to differ! thats so not true in all cases!!

[CrystalEyes]

Originally posted by angel_fur
i'll make really good friends and then they just go away or i go away.

I've had the same problem....but I dont let it get to me....everybody has a purpose in life....I just figure that they came into my life for a reason and they left it for a reason....besides....I've found that the ones that don't stay in my life for very long were not TRUE friends to begin with and I dont need them in my life anywayz... :sadblue:

[CrystalEyes]

Originally posted by DJDiversty
If he/she says exactly what u thinking, then he's probably a good friend..and remember a friend of the opposite sex will always have feelings at some point for u...

Ssooooooo NOT TRUE !!! Most of my friends have no freakin clue what I'm thinking! lol ... but I like it that way ... a TRUE friend will be there for you and like you no matter what, for who you are inside ... and most of my friends are guys ... have I ever had feelings for them other than friendship at any point in time ... no ... in fact, the men that I have ever had feelings for never began as a friendship first ... it was always one of those "love at first sight" type of things ...

[cee]

Its good to have friends but not good to have best friends cuz best cant always b da best forever!!! Trust ya self before ya trust another!!!

[Nos]

Do your friends still exist on a tangilble plane, or did they actually disappear, Houdini style?

[badkitty3804]

That would be kind of cool.

"I don't like you anymore!"
"*POOF*"

[Bunny]

Originally posted by discoball
People will come and go out of your life, and you just have to let them. Even though friends are fun, it's not healthy to cling to another person. I've gone through so many friends myself and I do envy people who are still close wit their childhood friends, but there's nothing wrong with being an independent person.

I agree. Plus, people change and some just move on in different directions with their life. You have to be your own person and not depend on your friendships to move you through life. If they are really your friends then they will still be there and if they aren't then do not worry about it. They might not be there because they are having their own problems to deal with. On the other hand they probably were not worth it.

[punkasschikadee]

enjoy your time with each of your friends.. if they come and go you'll have to accept it.

im lucky enough to have a friend so close to me and vice versa... but you can't really go out and pick your friends...
you also can't seclude yourself.. thatd probably be really unhealthy
just be careful! and know who to trust!

[badkitty3804]

Friends do change over time. Even ones that were true friends at one point.

My best friend since Kindergarten and I hardly talk anymore. We were best friends up until the end of high school and we both changed and went in different directions. I kind of realized this not to long ago when she called me a week and a half after my 21st birthday to tell me 'Happy Bday".

It happens.

But I do think they should have a shelf life longer than a year.

[angel_fur]

yeah but it's like no matter what i do, i cant keep them around, i try to be a really great friend and do whatever they want. and they still end up going away...not like disappearing, but talking mad shit about me behind my back..all the time. and i so wished that shit was over when high school was, but i guess not.
and yeah, one of these friends was a guy that liked me for a while, and i guess he realized it wasnt goin anywhere so now he's talkin shit..

where am i supposed to make quality friends??? im so lost :sadblue:

[badkitty3804]

Don't be so quick to call someone a friend. A person has to earn that title. (Just like you have to earn it with them)

[A.J.]

maybe there just looking for their 15 mins of fame :shrug:

[angel_fur]

yeah probably...it's so hard to figure out who's trustworthy and who's not...i thought this girl was my best friend, but apparently not cause she soooooo stabbed me in the back....and she's really the only chick friend i had...

[A.J.]

hire a private detective? :shrug:

[angel_fur]

that actually sounds like a good idea right about now :shady:

[iminxtc]

yeah i had a chic do me wrong and its pretty hard to trust girls now. but i try to be positive about it!

[angel_fur]

i think every single chick friend i've EVER had has fucked me over....but yeah i havent given up on it yet :sexaddict:

[angel_fur]

ooops wrong smiley...i meant this one:wee:

[kirk]

Originally posted by iminxtc
i dont have many friends, they all lack the abliltiy to except change...


intelligent feedback.

this is reinforced as you get older i assure you.


enjoy friendship while it is present and try to accept that ALL relationships end at some point in time.



today's werd is "perspective"


say it with me "perspective"

[Wickity]

"perspective"

[kirk]

i knew you could

[housecat]

Originally posted by badkitty3804
Friends do change over time. Even ones that were true friends at one point.

My best friend since Kindergarten and I hardly talk anymore. We were best friends up until the end of high school and we both changed and went in different directions. I kind of realized this not to long ago when she called me a week and a half after my 21st birthday to tell me 'Happy Bday".

It happens.

But I do think they should have a shelf life longer than a year.
Same here actually. I had a best guy friend from Kindergarden til about the second year of college then we drifted apart. We just changed a bit and went different ways... people change over time and not always at the same pace... that's totally normal.

Most of my good friends I still keep in contact with just not on the regular. Sometimes we don't talk for a year (more or less) then one will call the other when something comes up or something new happens then we chill like normal again. I love that... we're always there even though we don't talk regularly. A few years ago a friend calls randomly and is like let's go visit x in Florida for a week and we go and had the best fucking time doing nothing but hang out and talk. That was the best.

[badkitty3804]

Exactly, I have a list of old friends that I can call and have a conversation like things never changed. They just aren't in my direct line of super close buddies anymore.

[nickn]

i dont have many friends, they all lack the abliltiy to except change...

I have the opposite problem. As a 30 yrold wit the mind of someone who just turned 21 all my friends have *moved on* as in married, careers, own houses etc... I still get psyched about music, going to clubs, gettin f'd up and that my appartment has windows and I dont have to live in a basement anymore.

[koolaidluva]

Werd i guess u need to find some REAL friends, Friendship is DEFINATELY not overated but can be overextended, remember that not everyone is your friend, friendship is a STRONG word, and we use it in vain alot, u should always strive to keep at least 2 people < Friends> VERY close to u, peepz u can tell anything to, have the best of times with, have the worst of times with, shoulders to cry on, peepz to laugh with, Friends should be an excape from the world!!, and most of all...a friend is somebody that u can be 100% yourself around!!, anything less...isnt a Friend!!, maybe an aquaintance

[mtd2003]

Originally posted by angel_fur
yeah but it's like no matter what i do, i cant keep them around, i try to be a really great friend and do whatever they want. and they still end up going away...not like disappearing, but talking mad shit about me behind my back..all the time. and i so wished that shit was over when high school was, but i guess not.
and yeah, one of these friends was a guy that liked me for a while, and i guess he realized it wasnt goin anywhere so now he's talkin shit..

where am i supposed to make quality friends??? im so lost :sadblue:

you got a pic?

could shed some light on the situation...

[badkitty3804]

:haha:

Like a shark...

[Yakko Red]

Originally posted by angel_fur
for the last 4 or 5 years of my life, i've gone through like 6 cycles of friends. i'll make really good friends and then they just go away or i go away. it just happened again and i'm left with my inverted female cock in my hand.
i don't think i'm a horrible person and i've never really done too much that would cause everyone to hate the fuck out of me. ? i just cant figure it out.
im not really sure what i'm asking here, but i feel like crap so i thought i'd share.

I can relate to what you're feeling most definitely ma'am.

There were times where I felt like I was destined to walk alone and never have a group of people to really confide in. I drifted from here and there, "meandering" without purpose. It's definitely one of those feelings that I dislike but don't regret, because without it, I wouldn't appreciate the friends I have now as much as I do.

It can't rain all the time..... promise.

[Bunny]

Originally posted by nickn


I have the opposite problem. As a 30 yrold wit the mind of someone who just turned 21 all my friends have *moved on* as in married, careers, own houses etc... I still get psyched about music, going to clubs, gettin f'd up and that my appartment has windows and I dont have to live in a basement anymore.

:werd:

I just turned 28 and it's time to party!!!

[kirk]

if i knew it was this kind a party, i'd stick my ........

[Mitaic]

some of them are overated, but a minor few of them aren't. you get better at choosing your friends as time passes by.

[znrg3k]

friends come and go, you always meet new people, and sometimes older ones get cycled out or replaced... it's a natural cycle to grow apart or grow old from others.. don't beat yourself on the head cause you haven't found the 'perfect everlasting friend'..

[kirk]

i found the 'perfect everlasting friend' a few months ago and then she popped leaving me with a a frumpy pile of useless polyurethene.


now i am sad

[RYU]

Originally posted by Bunny


:werd:

I just turned 28 and it's time to party!!!

HAPPY B-day!!

Aren't U lucky I'm Ur present....

Wait we don't aaccept returns!
Seriously I'm fo free...

What do U mean U'll pay me to leave?:delirious:

[Yakko Red]

Originally posted by KirkInOut
i found the 'perfect everlasting friend' a few months ago and then she popped leaving me with a a frumpy pile of useless polyurethene.


now i am sad

Further Proof that if you are too hard on your friends, it's only going to make things worse.

[kirk]

Originally posted by Yakko Red


Further Proof that if you are too hard on your friends, it's only going to make things worse.


amen mah brethren

[ravetildawn]

i totally hear you. i just posted something similar not too long ago...
but yea, i have few close friends here in the area. it's hard to meet people that you can really get to know well, who are willing to put time into a new friendship.
it's quite difficult to find good peeps, i think, once you're out of academia. also, since i tend to act and talk like a guy, i don't find many female friends who....appreciate that. and the guy friends that i make sometimes will think i want something more from them. it's quite a dilemma...
but, yes, friends will come and go, but if you always are who you are, you will attract ppl who are similar are who can at least appreciate your uniqueness.

[iminxtc]

*sighs* *types and deletes*

[Muramasa]

*sighs**copies and pastes*

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Oh crap... forgot I was playing that stupid game again.:doh: