View Full Version : jaded kandi kids ???
teknostate6
2003-11-06, 01:16 AM
i love kandi an the whole attitude alot , an defintly playing the role at parties an jus being innocent an carefree, but i notice as im getting older and the stresses of life have worn me down im not always so happy and nice as i use to be, and quite frankly a hell of alot of people piss me the fuck off, and im really tired of arrogant an ignorant an stuck up an stupid ass people esp ones that get in my face with shit. more than anything im just rambling but is it possiable to be a kandi kid an also be sumwhat jaded cause thats kinda how ive been feeling these days. i dont know just confused really , dont worry though ill try not to forget tha PLUR............... luv ya kids
iminxtc
2003-11-06, 01:24 AM
yes im jus oozing with PLUR!
Capital Zero
2003-11-06, 01:31 AM
welcome to my world.
punkasschikadee
2003-11-06, 01:33 AM
i think you put very VERY too much emphasis on being a "kandi kid"
a "kandi kid" is usually defined by their bubbles personality... if you are not feeling all bubbles and plur you are not a kandi kid
its okay it happens to the best of us
Nquire
2003-11-06, 01:34 AM
Originally posted by teknostate6
i love kandi an the whole attitude alot , an defintly playing the role at parties an jus being innocent an carefree, but i notice as im getting older and the stresses of life have worn me down im not always so happy and nice as i use to be, and quite frankly a hell of alot of people piss me the fuck off, and im really tired of arrogant an ignorant an stuck up an stupid ass people esp ones that get in my face with shit. more than anything im just rambling but is it possiable to be a kandi kid an also be sumwhat jaded cause thats kinda how ive been feeling these days. i dont know just confused really , dont worry though ill try not to forget tha PLUR............... luv ya kids I would not call you Jaded. I know exactly what you are talking about. I have found myself snapping at people latley and kind of being an ass. Not doing it on purpose I catch myself doing it. I think it is just a phase some people go through. Is it people at parties that you get pissed off at? If it is just people in general, dont call yourself jaded because that will only make you feel the way you do. If that makes any sense at all? Probably not, but I can relate to ya!!:thumbsup:
angel_fur
2003-11-06, 01:53 AM
its ok to get pissed off....just be like :fu: cause that way youre smiling at the same time and thats gotta count for something
Jungle_Love
2003-11-06, 02:03 AM
It happens to the best of us. Its okay. you're jsut being crushed by the weight of the world. Learn to acept it.
No Im just kidding.
Change can be a good thing. Just let yourself become whoever it wants to be. And dont have any regrets. If someone doesnt like you or thinks you are an asshole. Who are they?!? No one is better than you because through you're perception of the world you are the king of it all. Any situation is just what you make of it. Pick and choose you battles. Take baths. Eat quesadillas and drink Green tea. Go for a walk. You're just stressed out.
teknostate6
2003-11-06, 02:27 AM
yea thanx fella's im not good at the quoting thing but to whoever asked if i was pissed at people at parties or jus in general........ i luv kids at parties i feel happy than , its just people in "the real world" that have been pissing me off.
keokikim02
2003-11-06, 02:32 AM
i hear ya bruvva~ :fu: the world~ :jk:
s'ok bruv~
when winter-time comes around, my inner bitch is released and i get moody, bitter and really depressed. seasonal depression or some shit. maybe that is what affecting you.
~*~SUPA~*~
2003-11-06, 02:40 AM
yeah people look at me all weird b/c i wear certain special pieces of kandi everyday. the world's attitude sucks! people have become so so so closed-minded, selfish, and blind to others.
i agree f*** the world these days! and take a big fat plur on their heads! lol lol lol just kiddin on that last sentence you guys! lol.
but yeah f*** the world and its ignorance to others.
~*~SUPA~*~
2003-11-06, 02:41 AM
yeah winter time makes me bitchy i hate coldness
DeAtHmOnGeR bEaR
2003-11-06, 02:52 AM
I feel ya, Technostate... :yes:
I started off being a happy-go-plurry kandi kid who just bounced around the club with smiles, stickers, and kandi for everyone...
And then ... things... happened. I learned that simply being happy and loving to everyone wouldn't cut it in the real world. I get angry at people, shout, and in general, get pissed a whole lot more now than I used to.
Guess what?
I'm still kandi :D
I was actually contemplating the possibility that I myself was a jaded kandi kid earlier today, so I definatly know where you're coming from.
All I know is that in the end, I still love to bounce around. I still love to smile. I still love to meet new people and give them stickers, kandi, and *huggles*
Yay!
keokikim02
2003-11-06, 02:55 AM
Originally posted by acid*stars
when winter-time comes around, my inner bitch is released and i get moody, bitter and really depressed. seasonal depression or some shit. maybe that is what affecting you.
:werd: i'm beginning to think that i do... coz for no reason i just start becoming like that.. when the leaves start to fall i start to think more and i notice that i am very moody and stuff...
DeAtHmOnGeR bEaR
2003-11-06, 03:02 AM
Yeah. Lots of peeps have seasonal depression....:yes:
I finally convinced my folks to buy me a light-alarm clock. It simulates a normal sunrise for whenever time I set it to wake me up.
I wake up in a well-lit room, and feel better most of the time for it!
:specialed:
teknostate6
2003-11-06, 03:14 AM
haha funshine me an u can start the jaded kandi kidz ............. wouldnt that be sum fuked shiznit?
DeAtHmOnGeR bEaR
2003-11-06, 03:28 AM
Yeah, I guess so.
But I don't like to think of myself as 'jaded' know??
I just like being MEE!!! :specialed:
teknostate6
2003-11-06, 03:31 AM
lol i know i wuz only teasing i still wanna be sweet an bounce all around too................ ive jus had to deal with much craziness an been super stressed latly sumtimes it gets to me an i feel bad for not be all nice an stuff.
DeAtHmOnGeR bEaR
2003-11-06, 03:33 AM
I know :yes:
Believe me, I know
That's why I put on some DJ Candy Kid and rawked the fuck out in my bedroom :lessthanthree:
teknostate6
2003-11-06, 03:47 AM
i thought u were going to bed ?
teknostate6
2003-11-06, 03:49 AM
well i know im going to bed night kiddies love ya guys !
DeAtHmOnGeR bEaR
2003-11-06, 03:55 AM
I was.
Now I really am
:byebye:
Wedge
2003-11-06, 11:41 AM
It's easy to be kandi when you don't have bills to pay. I think as you get older you realize life ain't all stickers and glitter or whatever it is you kandi kids like. You gotta realize no matter how nice to people you are there will always be people who belittle you and treat you like shit. If you can learn to brush it off and stay upbeat and smiling then your truly a kandi kid. If not, then your on the path to jadeddom, enjoy the trip. I've never been all plury and shit but I think it would be a shame if all you kids died out. I think every party should have atleast 2-3 of you fre.. er kids bouncing and skipping and doing whatever the hell it is you do. Just don't hug me and try and put a sticker on my face or I'll elbow you :P
the sex molesters
2003-11-06, 01:17 PM
in the past year or so i have had my eyes opened a huge amount of superficiality, hypocrasy, arrogance, and idiocy in the rave scene..... for a while i was all like "oooo i'm getting jaded...." and then i realized that i myself was falling into the superficial slump that i had noticed in the scene... i had put too much emphasis on being a kandi raver or whatever the fuck i was being, and i had forgotten that one reason i fell in love with this scene in the first place was because nobody in it cared if i would just be myself.... and myself, though fairly peaceful and loving, hasn't always been saccarine with happiness and bubbling with joy... in fact, that's just not me at all. i still feel like PLUR is what the rave scene is and should be about.... but goddammit, happiness doesn't start with a p,l,u, or r. it's ok to be sad sometimes. it's ok to not have a good time at parties sometimes. it's ok to hate..... and all sorts of other things. we are human, we feel that way sometimes. but for every yin there is yang.... for every hate there is love.
once i figured all this stuff out, i was a lot happier and started having a better time going out. lol.
n-root
2003-11-06, 01:47 PM
Originally posted by keokikim02
i hear ya bruvva~ :fu: the world~ :jk:
s'ok bruv~
I think you should stop calling people brother ... now get this ....
And start callin them Governor!!!!! like an old englishmen!!!!!
so like ....
i hear ya guvvna~ :fu: the world~ :jk:
s'ok gov~
that would be awsome! :thumbsup:
SCHLiTZ
2003-11-06, 01:59 PM
Originally posted by n-root
I think you should stop calling people brother ... now get this ....
And start callin them Governor!!!!! like an old englishmen!!!!!
:haha: stupid Pip...
bkidz
2003-11-06, 02:05 PM
Fuckin' Wankers. . . :haha:
BuzzCat
2003-11-06, 02:08 PM
Where do you get one of those light alarm clocks? I get seasonal crap crapyness too. I feel everybody on the "jadedness" stuff. (for lack of a better word. I love the idea of being super happy plurry, stickery, kadied, bouchy etc... But the last year I usually am more comfortable in Graver clothing and I give more mean looks than i really want. perhaps it's my lack of appropiate group, but i definitly feel closed off and I wonder how I was every so plurrtasticly friendly in the first place. hrmmmm....
binger
2003-11-06, 03:36 PM
Originally posted by iminxtc
yes im jus oozing with PLUR!
yess i :raveon: raver with the plur why because theres nothen better than to plur all over its even better when you plyr with other right right on like whoa
DeAtHmOnGeR bEaR
2003-11-06, 03:39 PM
Originally posted by djinergy
in the past year or so i have had my eyes opened a huge amount of superficiality, hypocrasy, arrogance, and idiocy in the rave scene..... for a while i was all like "oooo i'm getting jaded...." and then i realized that i myself was falling into the superficial slump that i had noticed in the scene... i had put too much emphasis on being a kandi raver or whatever the fuck i was being, and i had forgotten that one reason i fell in love with this scene in the first place was because nobody in it cared if i would just be myself.... and myself, though fairly peaceful and loving, hasn't always been saccarine with happiness and bubbling with joy... in fact, that's just not me at all. i still feel like PLUR is what the rave scene is and should be about.... but goddammit, happiness doesn't start with a p,l,u, or r. it's ok to be sad sometimes. it's ok to not have a good time at parties sometimes. it's ok to hate..... and all sorts of other things. we are human, we feel that way sometimes. but for every yin there is yang.... for every hate there is love.
once i figured all this stuff out, i was a lot happier and started having a better time going out. lol.
:werd: Oh, by mentioning that I had the thought in my mind that I might become jaded, I didn't mean that I thought about it a lot :yes:
I'm just fine and dandy most of the time, cause of the simple truth: I like being happy :D
:woot:
binger
2003-11-06, 03:40 PM
you are jaded though
im just playen
DeAtHmOnGeR bEaR
2003-11-06, 03:40 PM
Originally posted by BuzzCat
Where do you get one of those light alarm clocks? I get seasonal crap crapyness too.
A decent one can be a little expensive, but if you're really interested I can pass on details on where to get one :hifive:
DeAtHmOnGeR bEaR
2003-11-06, 03:41 PM
Originally posted by binger
you are jaded though
im just playen
:crying2:
That's the last time I ever take a picture of you!
And no more stickers! Come back one year! :afterbuzz:
binger
2003-11-06, 03:43 PM
ohhhh my god don't i plur i plur oooooooooohhhhhhhhhh i plur
DeAtHmOnGeR bEaR
2003-11-06, 03:44 PM
:plurstick:
Good little Bingaling.... here... *sticker* *huggles*
Jungle_Love
2003-11-06, 03:47 PM
Originally posted by BuzzCat
I love the idea of being super happy plurry, stickery, kadied, bouchy etc... But the last year I usually am more comfortable in Graver clothing and I give more mean looks than i really want.
I feel ya on that. Ive been becoming a graver lately. I even died my hair black. But somehow i feel bter this way. If this is who i really am than so be it. Whatever. I happento look good in black. Though i still wear the yellow UFO's and PLUR T shirts on good days.
DeAtHmOnGeR bEaR
2003-11-06, 03:49 PM
I busted my yellow UFOs at Starscape along with my ass :sadblue:
SCHLiTZ
2003-11-06, 03:51 PM
I never wear my UFO's, unless it's around the house.... almost all the buttons popped off 'em, and the red ones are WAY too bright for my tastes now.
DeAtHmOnGeR bEaR
2003-11-06, 03:53 PM
OMG.... give them to me!!! :smooch:
I figgure, I'm about to be the mother that rolls outta bed, and cooks breakfast for her kids, still sportin the UFOs...
Jungle_Love
2003-11-06, 04:35 PM
HA HA!!
You will be the coolest mom on the block, Funshine!
DeAtHmOnGeR bEaR
2003-11-06, 04:39 PM
Hells yeah...
Best RECOGNIZE :yes:
Capital Zero
2003-11-06, 04:39 PM
beef with me it hangs around like uh unpaid bill
DeAtHmOnGeR bEaR
2003-11-06, 04:40 PM
:werd:
Capital Zero
2003-11-06, 04:42 PM
respect
DeAtHmOnGeR bEaR
2003-11-06, 04:48 PM
Fo' sho'
GiveMeFunkyBeats
2003-11-07, 12:36 AM
bok bok bok
GiveMeFunkyBeats
2003-11-07, 12:36 AM
chicken head
Shell
2003-11-07, 11:23 AM
Originally posted by teknostate6
i love kandi an the whole attitude alot , an defintly playing the role at parties an jus being innocent an carefree, but i notice as im getting older and the stresses of life have worn me down im not always so happy and nice as i use to be, and quite frankly a hell of alot of people piss me the fuck off, and im really tired of arrogant an ignorant an stuck up an stupid ass people esp ones that get in my face with shit. more than anything im just rambling but is it possiable to be a kandi kid an also be sumwhat jaded cause thats kinda how ive been feeling these days. i dont know just confused really , dont worry though ill try not to forget tha PLUR............... luv ya kids
I am beginning to relate the whole plur thing to a morning after a fesitval o'booze with an icky person. Sure, the past was fun and open, people had less inhabitions, but there comes a time when you wake up and see what you are lying in bed with. I know that by allowing myself to be more accepting of others never paid off. You have 1st impressions and bad feelings for a reason when you meet shady characters- follow your instincts! Don't be consumed with the plur! Plur can be broken down as such: Peace- we've been praying for it for a long time, I dont think that girl is callin back. Love- that is an entire issue in and of iteslf NEVER worth getting into. Unity- can be found just about anywhere if you really wanna find it. Respect- you should've had that to begin with, if not, your fake and just following a trend.
Dont feel bad for not feeling the plur- I think the "beer goggles" were just removed.
MaryAnarchy
2003-11-07, 11:25 AM
if you're pissy at parties, stop going out as much. take a break! parties are for times of carefree fun...not for being bitter!
Julierose
2003-11-08, 02:33 PM
Originally posted by Capital Zero
welcome to my world.
:werd:
teknostate6
2003-11-08, 06:53 PM
hey i am still care free at parties ............. always just a pile of stickers an kandi and fuzzy luvy happiness. its just real life that i was talking about. an i already stated that. stupid cracker ass white people i swear! hahaha
MattaKnox
2003-11-08, 07:15 PM
Originally posted by teknostate6
yea thanx fella's im not good at the quoting thing but to whoever asked if i was pissed at people at parties or jus in general........ i luv kids at parties i feel happy than , its just people in "the real world" that have been pissing me off.
eventually you'll start feeling this way about people at parties as well. don't fight it. it's a natural evolution.
citylightdc
2003-11-08, 08:03 PM
Stupid cracker ass candy fool...Maybe you should grow up all the way, and adapt some style into your wardrobe...Being pissy and dressing like a fool gives you no respect, and people will be pissy right back to you...sucka....
teknostate6
2003-11-09, 02:38 AM
damn city lights u aint GOTS NO LOVE FOR A BROTHER. but its all good kid im not gonna sweat the petty beef. *hugs* an *sunshine* an all that shit kid. peeeeace im out. hahaha.
teknostate6
2003-11-09, 02:41 AM
jahs speaking to be my now boy so be quite so i can listen ya know? :menthol: :delirious: o really u kids r tooo much fun , luvs ya .
DeAtHmOnGeR bEaR
2003-11-09, 02:43 AM
Bleh.
Enough with this 'jaded' crap :delirious:
I had a lot of fun at the Crystal Method :yes:
teknostate6
2003-11-09, 02:51 AM
hmm i didnt get to go but i still had fun :tweak: yea i feel ya funshine u always have such a nice attitude :D fuk sitting around being all like "blah blah im jaded and im mad at everbody blah blah" hehehe i wuz jus expresing sum insecurties and looking for sum support but im toatly over it
teknostate6
2003-11-09, 02:52 AM
*yay* back to tha luvs
teknostate6
2003-11-09, 02:53 AM
wanna dance i got this dj fatal demo its pretty sick though.
DeAtHmOnGeR bEaR
2003-11-09, 02:53 AM
Originally posted by teknostate6
hmm i didnt get to go but i still had fun :tweak: yea i feel ya funshine u always have such a nice attitude :D fuk sitting around being all like "blah blah im jaded and im mad at everbody blah blah" hehehe i wuz jus expresing sum insecurties and looking for sum support but im toatly over it
:sok: Sometimes we all have to vent a little :D
:smooch:
DeAtHmOnGeR bEaR
2003-11-09, 02:54 AM
Originally posted by teknostate6
wanna dance i got this dj fatal demo its pretty sick though.
I just got home from some place I can't spell... never NEVER before in my entire life have I seen quite so many drunken preps booty grinding to 'Silence'
:bolt:
Hold me......
:crying2:
teknostate6
2003-11-09, 02:55 AM
so crystal method was nice?
DeAtHmOnGeR bEaR
2003-11-09, 02:56 AM
Pretty damn good :yes:
And I got to meet them and have them sign a flyer "To Funshine, with love!" :woot:
And then I gave them stickers. And they wore them :yes:
teknostate6
2003-11-09, 02:58 AM
aww im sorry kiddo, its such a nice song too it sux all the prepy kidz where out. :smooch: i miss going to parties an shows a couple times a week, i cant wait till i get my own ride than i go all the time again.
teknostate6
2003-11-09, 02:59 AM
THATS GREAT, they where digging the *stickers* , hey have sum kandi itll make u feel better *hold out wrist*
DeAtHmOnGeR bEaR
2003-11-09, 03:10 AM
:woot:
*trades kandi*
I gave the CUTEST kandi boy - the one with the wings on :D - a piece of kandi and some visor kandi!! Yay.. and he gave me what I think is my newest favorite piece!!
citylightdc
2003-11-09, 03:00 PM
OMG Can I have some Candy..???
MaryAnarchy
2003-11-12, 11:02 AM
dude becky looked hot on friday
:humpsmonitor:
DeAtHmOnGeR bEaR
2003-11-13, 02:57 AM
Originally posted by citylightdc
OMG Can I have some Candy..???
I had lotsa candy to hand out on Halloween night... where were you then :shady:
Untill then you can have a star sticker :yes:
funshine, just beat up some other kandi kids.. steal their kandi.. and then start passin em out as yr own.
problem solved.
DeAtHmOnGeR bEaR
2003-11-13, 04:12 AM
Oh I gots plenty of kandy :yes:
And SO MANY BEADS!!!! I have many a tupperware container full :woot:
I just don't like wearing arm-loads of kandi to the club, so I pass out stickers instead!
MaryAnarchy
2003-11-13, 09:49 AM
i bring my candy in bags. and then pass it out. i usually just wear the candy i made myself to teh club.
BluGlowStix
2003-11-14, 02:36 PM
I'm so mad I missed the method!!! darn it well I"ll be back tonight broe and sober but I'll bw there!!!!!!!! To the original post I feel ya I lost my bubblieness too so for now I"m just another raver till the happyness comes back!!!
PizzaTheSlut
2003-11-18, 01:24 AM
The only people who post these meaningless topics about being jaded are the ones more caught up in treating a dance club like the high school cafeteria. I go because I enjoy dancing. I honestly could care less about your problems, outlooks, or drama that you carry with you to the club. Why not try DANCING at the DANCE club instead of acting like sniviling, bratty children?
MaryAnarchy
2003-11-18, 11:06 AM
heheheheheh!!!!!!!!!!!
sniveling ;)
teknostate6
2003-11-19, 01:52 AM
yea i just got a whole bag full of beads ive been going to town , i made one that says technostate! i hate when your right about to tie one close and your fingers slip and you have to start all over !
DeAtHmOnGeR bEaR
2003-11-19, 02:38 AM
I love making kandi!
I need some more beads and string tho :yes:
MaryAnarchy
2003-11-19, 01:50 PM
i have TONS AND TONS of beads. aubrey got me tons for my birthday.
i was just in the dollar store and found "word" beads...beads with random words written on them. i'm going to have lots of fun with these!!!
i haven't been in the candy making mood recently. i usually only make it when i'm stressed out or pissed off or depressed. i've been pretty happy lately.
i've also been pre-occupied with an awesome jigsaw puzzle aubrey got me for my birthday
yes, i'm a nerd.
MaryAnarchy
2003-11-19, 01:52 PM
i also have xmas beads i got in some variety pack. i'll have to use those up soon as well.
punkasschikadee
2003-11-19, 01:55 PM
xmas candy raves like :whoa:
MaryAnarchy
2003-11-19, 02:34 PM
hahaha
i dont' even think i'll be out around xmas time....family duty calls! but i handed out my halloween candy a week before halloween so i may do the same with my xmas candy.
i'm tired.
n-root
2003-11-19, 02:37 PM
I was thinking about making my own christmass ornament out of an egg. I guess I would nee to drill it to drain it then handpaint beautiful designs on it....... all of whitch I can't do so umm yeah that was about as far as it went.
MaryAnarchy
2003-11-19, 02:42 PM
those are hard to do.
make them out of jar lids. or bake clay and paint it~!
n-root
2003-11-19, 02:43 PM
Originally posted by MaryAnarchy
those are hard to do.
make them out of jar lids. or bake clay and paint it~!
*sings*
"She's CRAFTY!"
punkasschikadee
2003-11-19, 02:51 PM
my aunt makes those egg ornaments every year :beaker:
MaryAnarchy
2003-11-19, 03:31 PM
i am emarassingly crafty. i just never do any of my ideas, due to the fact i'm lazy
DeAtHmOnGeR bEaR
2003-11-19, 03:34 PM
Originally posted by punkasschikadee
my aunt makes those egg ornaments every year :beaker:
Shhh! I make those with my mother and brother for easter every year!!
iminxtc
2003-11-19, 03:37 PM
crafts are fun... i just dont have the patience.
DeAtHmOnGeR bEaR
2003-11-19, 03:40 PM
Ohh.. well... I tend to hyper-focus and do crafts for hours at a time. And then I look outside my window and see the sun rising... http://www.groovanauts.com/board/images/smilies/shine.gif
MaryAnarchy
2003-11-19, 03:42 PM
yes, that's how i am with making bracelets and doing puzzles and reading books.
:)