the meaning of sex

[BestBoardHooker]

ok, so hypothetically speaking and all, lets say that you and your boyfriend brake up. You go down to his school to visit some friends and, while at a party, you run into him. It's kinda weird and all, kinda emotional...anyway, you end up back in his dorm room and despite him saying that he doesn't want to get back together and whatnot you hook up and spend the rest of the night in eachothers arms. So now you're confused beyond all belief b/c he swears up and down that sex isn't just some random thing for him and that he wouldn't do it unless he really cared about the person...and then to top it all off, the next day he invites you to go to a party with him as his "date"....what the hell is going on is this childs mind???? and why is he playing with mine???? what should I do? what should I think?????

[MattaKnox]

get bombed :cheers:

[Milkman John]

then have drunken sloppy sex with him

and his friends

that should do it

j/k

btw, ever considered talking to him instead of us??????

[binger]

real quick news flash................................... he just wanted some butt....... answer 1st question if we new we woundl't tell you anyways.............answer 2nd beacuse your letting him................answer 3rd do what you need to do..............answer 4th think what ever you need to

[BestBoardHooker]

I do talk to him, or atleast I try to. I don't know. Somehow it always leads to drama...damn drama. I'm so tired of drama. DOWN WITH DRAMA!!!!!!!

[binger]

then walk away but first take some shit and give it to me

[Milkman John]

then keep your legs closed

simple enough

or get on with your life....

[Milkman John]

Originally posted by binger
then walk away but first take some shit and give it to me


yeah, he got a dvd player?

i could use one

[BestBoardHooker]

nope sorry, no dvd player...but he does have a nice computer and a set of tables...I'll just start auctioning his shit off to the highest bidder....hehe!!!!!

[Muramasa]

Depends on why you guys broke up, I think. If it was a clean breakup, maybe he still really cares about you.:shrug:

[orangeglow]

or getting laid rocks, thats probably about the meaning of it.

[binger]

charile were trying to get free shit here man.. your fucking it all up

[BestBoardHooker]

oh dear god getting laid rocks! especially in the morning....I love morning sex!!!!

[Milkman John]

i wake up at 9:15

but you gotta be gone by 9:20

[binger]

im just playen charlie

[BestBoardHooker]

I like to enjoy my sex...five miuntes is just not enough!

[The Logic Theorist]

I'm sure he still cares, but just because 2 people care about each other does not mean they can be together. You said it yourself, everytime you talk there is drama. But, you're comfortable with each other, and instead of dealing with the pain of breaking up, you're falling back into the same pattern that was the ruined relationship.

You need to stop having sex with him, and probably stop talking to him, or you need to get back together and have the same relationship that wasn't working before. That's as much up to you as it is to him.

[Milkman John]

seriously though, you should keep your legs closed and your wits about you...yeah it may feel good to scrump him,but hey....

btw,aren't you the one who was upset they went and fucked things up a few days ago?(forgive me if i am wrong)

maybe you should, ya know, i dunno, step back and reflect.....

[Milkman John]

Originally posted by LilSunnyGirl
I like to enjoy my sex...five miuntes is just not enough!


oh, this is about YOU...my bad

:D

[BestBoardHooker]

I don't know if I want to get back together with him. I mean, I broke up with him for a reason and just because I miss him doesn't mean that we should begin a relationship again. or attempt to. But at the same time, I do care about him and I do love him. I can't imagine him not being a part of my life.

[binger]

its no longer sex there what we all call fucking.

[BestBoardHooker]

Originally posted by Fingerprint



oh, this is about YOU...my bad

:D

don't you know that everything is about me! come on kid, what the hell were you thinking? I'm the goddess of the universe...and ever so humble might I add! hehe!

[pojimoko]

somebody told me there's horny confused girls giving away free stuff in this thread...

can i see a list of what's available? or do i just have to take the next item that's being given away?

[binger]

dude get in line

[Article One]

Originally posted by orangeglow
or getting laid rocks, thats probably about the meaning of it.

sara is wise :yes:

[stevelogik]

Don't you love the mind games? Say no to sex babe and it will answer the rest of your questions

[Julierose]

Always remember...boys lie... The whole 'I dont have sex if it doesnt mean anything to me' is a line. He's just trying to get laid...

If he says that he doesnt want to be with you then dont get attached again cause it will never go anywhere. Do you want to waste your time with some loser who is playing with your thoughts and feelings like that? Didn't think so. People do some strange things under the influence, don't get caught up in it. Thats my two cents. Next time I want change...

[Alexis]

The situation isn't hypothetical.

[empressjenn]

booty is all that is on his brain girl. if he missed you that bad and cared for you that much, then he would be with you. plain and simple....love knows no boundaries or limitations.

[BestBoardHooker]

y'all rock...

dear god though, so much shit went down this weekend...and I was seriously trying to swear off drama! oh yeah, that didn't happen!

[binger]

good girl.




"next in line for buzz board advice please come this way"

"now taking number 651987462198446"

[RYU]

Originally posted by LilSunnyGirl
I do talk to him, or atleast I try to. I don't know. Somehow it always leads to drama...damn drama. I'm so tired of drama. DOWN WITH DRAMA!!!!!!!

Maybe acting classes at a prestigous school of acting like Juliard will help U branch into being "Down" with COmedy or action heroic epic style of life instead of drama.

PS Don't go take any romantic tragedy classes there full of drama.:glcaroline:

lol

Actually seriously I have no helpful info other than to talk it out.
I have learned not to take everything so seriously.
I don't mean not to be serious just don't focus on the negative aspects of life. Try and be optimistic as possible about the situation. I know it sounds corny and is corny but it makes me happy.:raveon:

[Bubbles18]

dont have sex with him for a awhile and if gets irritated with you or doesnt act the same the forget him but if he sticks around and doesnt care then he truly cares for you

[evey]

sex rules. that is all.

[orangeglow]

I like Evey's way of thinking.

[evey]

:thumbsup:

[orangeglow]

:ANden:

[Light Touch]

I think he just wanted sex with someone he was comfortable with, and so did she.

I mean, doesn't everyone have this kind of "on the way out the door" sex? It seems to be ubiquitous for me. We break up, we fuck, we break up again, we fuck more, we fight, my shit gets broken, I press charges... Standard ops.

Oh wait, now it's about me. Sorry. :sadblue:

Ahem -- where's the free shit?

[iminxtc]

mmm sex doesnt seem to have meaning these days?

[El Magnifico]

Originally posted by orangeglow
or getting laid rocks, thats probably about the meaning of it.

:haha: and :werd:

[Light Touch]

Originally posted by iminxtc
mmm sex doesnt seem to have meaning these days?

It means, "I think you're hot and I can put up with the garbage spewing from your mouth."

:lessthanthree:

[iminxtc]

quote:
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Originally posted by orangeglow
or getting laid rocks, thats probably about the meaning of it.
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i second that :banana:

[elad]

Originally posted by Light Touch


It means, "I think you're hot and I can put up with the garbage spewing from your mouth."

:lessthanthree:

:haha: x 1000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000

[PuraVida]

It doesnt require group therepy to figure out why it keeps happening.

[RYU]

"the meaning of sex"+ A partner to have it with= Satisfying as warm apple pie....It was apple right?....
Well I think pumpkin might be just as satisfying...

[KlondikeTW v2.0]

Originally posted by binger
real quick news flash................................... he just wanted some butt....... answer 1st question if we new we woundl't tell you anyways.............answer 2nd beacuse your letting him................answer 3rd do what you need to do..............answer 4th think what ever you need to

What the fuck is this bitch babbling about!?!

[buzzboy]

are you implying tha jesus is fat as well?

[Cypher Heat]

Originally posted by LilSunnyGirl
ok, so hypothetically speaking and all, lets say that you and your boyfriend brake up. You go down to his school to visit some friends and, while at a party, you run into him. It's kinda weird and all, kinda emotional...anyway, you end up back in his dorm room and despite him saying that he doesn't want to get back together and whatnot you hook up and spend the rest of the night in eachothers arms. So now you're confused beyond all belief b/c he swears up and down that sex isn't just some random thing for him and that he wouldn't do it unless he really cared about the person...and then to top it all off, the next day he invites you to go to a party with him as his "date"....what the hell is going on is this childs mind???? and why is he playing with mine???? what should I do? what should I think?????

Sounds like he is confusing his heart with his hard on. Sex with an ex can often stir up old feelings making you think oh why did i leave..i want u back etc. Personally, i think it's just a matter of familiarity. U hook up again with some that u know and are comfortable with and who can argue that sex with feelings involved is way better than a casual encounter. I say u both clear ya heads ...then drop ya pants

[BestBoardHooker]

update...he and I aren't back together but we're "dating". I think it's best that we don't jump back into something serious right now seeing as how we both need time to recover from all this drama. buit the good news is that yes, we;re friends and we're still talking so essentially all has worked out for the best. I'm still co0pnfused as to what I want and where I should go but I hacve a feeling that time will take care of it all...oh well...in anycase...y'all rock! thanks again for all you're help...I really do appriciate it...

Lyds

[Light Touch]

Oh, time will take care of it...trust in that. :D

[Shell]

Originally posted by LilSunnyGirl
ok, so hypothetically speaking and all, lets say that you and your boyfriend brake up. You go down to his school to visit some friends and, while at a party, you run into him. It's kinda weird and all, kinda emotional...anyway, you end up back in his dorm room and despite him saying that he doesn't want to get back together and whatnot you hook up and spend the rest of the night in eachothers arms. So now you're confused beyond all belief b/c he swears up and down that sex isn't just some random thing for him and that he wouldn't do it unless he really cared about the person...and then to top it all off, the next day he invites you to go to a party with him as his "date"....what the hell is going on is this childs mind???? and why is he playing with mine???? what should I do? what should I think?????
You may get a better answer if you ask him.

[Moebius]

IT was just SEX!

[juicyjay]

awww

[asian]

OMG!!!!LOL!!!!ROFL!!!!!BBQ!!!!

haha!!! hehehehehe!!!!! omfg!!!!!!

[Muramasa]

OMG!!!!LOL!!!!ROFL!!!!!BBQ!!!!

haha!!! hehehehehe!!!!! omfg!!!!!!

MSN!!!UPS!!!FYI!!!TGIF!!!
:cheer:

[bkidz]

http://www.funnygreetings.com/easter02/jesus_resurrection_clouds_heaven_md_wht.gif

resurrection like :whoa:

[BlackDragonTjr]

Play Siphon Filter: The Omega Strain and see if all the killing involved makes you feel any better :)

-The Temple Negro

[Methodus]

msjustinehu -- I am sorry to point this out, but why do you keep resurrecting old posts? Do you realize you are doing this?

[Muramasa]

Play Siphon Filter: The Omega Strain and see if all the killing involved makes you feel any better :)

-The Temple Negro

Mine is GTA: Vice City

Tool shop katanas and mopeds have a way of soothing the soul.:meditate:

[Yakko Red]

Mine is GTA: Vice City

Tool shop katanas and mopeds have a way of soothing the soul.:meditate:

Recently, with each passing day, I find myself liking you just a little bit more.

You're welcome in my home anytime.

[Muramasa]

You're not getting any of my bud light, Cliff.

[Yakko Red]

*looks at his can of bud light beside him*

*looks at computer*

*looks at El Diablo*

*looks at his can of bud light beside him*

Oh i'm fine, thank you sir.

[Muramasa]

We have punch and pie.:D

[Illuminated]

then keep your legs closed

simple enough

or get on with your life....
took it out of my mouth..

and i'll second the fact that he just wanted some, careful next time :yes:

[tranKwilized]

We have punch and pie.:D

no bearded clams?

[Yakko Red]

We have punch and pie.:D

...and blondes providing entertainment by splitting their heads open.

You win.

[Muramasa]

I do?:wink:

[LordOfThePance]

ok, so hypothetically speaking and all, lets say that you and your boyfriend brake up. You go down to his school to visit some friends and, while at a party, you run into him. It's kinda weird and all, kinda emotional...anyway, you end up back in his dorm room and despite him saying that he doesn't want to get back together and whatnot you hook up and spend the rest of the night in eachothers arms. So now you're confused beyond all belief b/c he swears up and down that sex isn't just some random thing for him and that he wouldn't do it unless he really cared about the person...and then to top it all off, the next day he invites you to go to a party with him as his "date"....what the hell is going on is this childs mind???? and why is he playing with mine???? what should I do? what should I think?????
It sounds like you are now technically "fuck buddies" as there is no exclusivity inferred in this relationship. He may not want to have sex with just anyone, but he definitely would hit it with a good friend (especially if she's good in the sack). Which is totally fine if that's what YOU want. I can understand the need to want to get together with someone you love and have a history with, but usually relationships that break up for a reason should stay broken up to eliminate confusion outlined in the afformentioned situation.

[BestBoardHooker]

http://www.funnygreetings.com/easter02/jesus_resurrection_clouds_heaven_md_wht.gif

resurrection like :whoa:

for serious!

damn, I forgot I even started this thread!

[candypink]

...and blondes providing entertainment by splitting their heads open.

You win.

:haha: poor girl.

[Muramasa]

Oh boo, she's fine save for a little brain damage.

[BestBoardHooker]

DIE THREAD DIE!!!!!

why won't you die already!

[Nquire]

I like to enjoy my sex...five miuntes is just not enough!:werd:

[Jet Pilot]

Why don't you just stop analizing every damn thing it and get over it and stop subjecting it to these nice people here... But you are helping them because deep down inside they listen to you because you make them feel better about them selves cause your Psyco.

As for the Drama between, who i assume is Tim, just stop being your self becasue you are and always will be the bearer of Drama,
In the words of Foamy "Get over it you Fat Bastards"

Burn... I'm out

P.S. I want my Maryland Hoodie back

[Zodiac*Blue]

I do talk to him, or atleast I try to. I don't know. Somehow it always leads to drama...damn drama. I'm so tired of drama. DOWN WITH DRAMA!!!!!!!

There's no time in life for games. Our lives are much shorter than we realize and we should embrace every moment instead of wasting them away. Here's the solution to your problem:
Go out on a date with me and you will forget all about him and all that drama. :smooch:

[ravetildawn]

sex is natural
sex is good

but you know what - not everybody does it....but everybody should.

[Muramasa]

...in moderation, when it's appropriate.
:ontome:

[EurotrashEve]

sex+ based on attraction only= meaningless sex
sex+ chemistry = more meaning,more emotions involved
sex outside a relationship= booty
sex in a relationship=making love/fucking....deep emotional connection

* In this case, your ex could well if he is claiming you as his "date" this means he still has feelings for ya' and feels the connection still between you two.... I dunno b/c also, some males/fems are masochistic to self and like to feel the pain of rejection over and over...or repeat relationships with ex's cuz they feel all too comfortable with you and no one else and can't move on with their lives

What was your relationship with him like...was it more intellectual or more based on sex...
b/c if it was based on sex than he is a user....If it was intellectual than he still has feelings inside for ya.
Another thing to look at is... after you guys Unf...did he cuddle with ya(deeper feelings left) or did he immediately put back on his clothes -or- turn over and fall asleep (this means "I am using you ...goodnight").??.

If you want to still remain friends with him I'd take a break from seeing him...just talk to him refrain from sex talk or compliments. Until, you feel like you two aren't trying to put yourself into the uncomfortable silence and end up fucking.

[badkitty3804]

/drama

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