So what about girls these days?

[Vedant]

I might sound like a nerd to you, but I don't care.
Do any of you girls abstain these days?
Any reasons why or why not?
I'm just wondering.

[GimmeABreakBeat]

vedant check your pms

[buzzboy]

Originally posted by Vedant
I might sound like a nerd to you, but I don't care.
Do any of you girls abstain these days?
Any reasons why or why not?
I'm just wondering.

whay about girls :shrug:

[Shell]

abstain from what? I'm confused.

[badkitty3804]

Originally posted by Vedant
I might sound like a nerd to you, but I don't care.
Do any of you girls abstain these days?
Any reasons why or why not?
I'm just wondering.

Abstain from sex.

I don’t really know a lot of virgins anymore. :shrug:
I myself don’t really go for ‘hook ups’ and one night stands, I just tend to get my luvin’s when I’m in a relationship. I don’t see myself having any sex for a long time. So I guess you could say that I am.

[Julierose]

um...let me put it this way. When you were in 5th grade the vast majority of the girls in your class were virgins (I hope) that number dwindled by the time you reached high school. by the time you graduated, many of the girls who started hs as virgins were no longer and many of the ones who were lost it in college. my point is this. the older you get, the less likely you are to find girls of the same age who are virgins. its just the way it is...sorry. If you really want to find a virgin you have two choices.

1)go to a local middle school and take your pick :no:
2)go to a local nunnery and take your pick. (and even many of them are not )

[El Magnifico]

Are you looking for someone to sacrifice?

[badkitty3804]

I wish I were still a virgin. That would be such a great pick-up line.

[Mandaba]

i only know one virgin. :shrug:

[Shawn_E]

:badkitty:

[Milkman John]

Originally posted by El Magnifico
Are you looking for someone to sacrifice?


Originally posted by badkitty3804
I wish I were still a virgin. That would be such a great pick-up line.


i remember reading somewhere that when ancient south american civilizations sacrificed "virgins" they weren't all virgins...what they called them was "pure womb" or some shit...they were instead performing utereus removal from these women as the sacrifice.....

i read it on the internet,so it must be true

anyways, i quit quit smoking ....so if anyone wants to kick me in the shins, this would be a good time.,..

[El Magnifico]

I'm totally a virgin, but this thread is about girl-virgins. So there.

[iminxtc]

jose! a virgin......yeah right!

[El Magnifico]

Um, a born-again virgin?! :shrug:

Okay, a Virgo then :-p Sept 10th is my birthday...:raveon:

[bboyneko]

Why is being a virgin such a virtue? For fucks sake...why are you "better" or more "pure" just because you havent stuck a body member in someones orfice, or allowed someone to? The ridiculous taboo placed on sexuality by western culture never ceases to amaze me.

[iminxtc]

really though i dont think its such a big deal.

[Buddafly]

one of my friends thought that by dating only virgins she'd have a better chance at finding a guy that wouldn't treat her like shit.

I find that theory faulty.

I just gave her a :slap: and left it at that.

[bboyneko]

Yeah I mean just because youve had sex with 12 girls and a latex-clad midget at the same time a few times dosen't make you like, a freak or anything.

And a goat. Cant forget the goat.

[angel_fur]

i think people should have sex when they feel like it and shouldnt be ashamed of it, as long as it's safe, it doesnt matter who you do :3some: why abstain when it feels so good??

[iminxtc]

dan a goat? whats on your mind?

[El Magnifico]

:dan: = :mattsanborn:?

no, wait, that's a sheep.

[Julierose]

Originally posted by FavoriteMistake
i only know one virgin. :shrug:

I know a guy who was trying to retain his virginity and did really well till he got to college. He got drunk and wound up in his bed with some girl. He was trying to save himself for someone special and he never even got her name...bummer. Interesting post script to the story, when he realized what he was doing he jumped out of bed and told the girl he had to go because he had forgotten that a friend had called him earlier threatening to commit suicide (total lie). As far as i know he never saw her again. That was the last virgin in my group of friends.

[J-Star]

I don't see what the big deal about being a virgin is either. I sure as hell never missed my virginity...and I'm SO glad I wasn't a virgin on my wedding night. I can't even imagine how horrible that would have been.
I think people really need to consider their reasoning behind abstaining aside from their upbringing.

[badkitty3804]

Virgin guys suck in the sack anyway. Experience is good.

[sensitiv]

i think that someone who can obstain from sex is a strong person. i personally think its a good thing. theres been too much emphasis on sex in our culture making it sounds like not doing it is bad. I disagree with all that. I just respect peoples personal decisions.

[badkitty3804]

It would be nice to tell the person that you decide to marry that 'they were your first'. BUT, I feel that if you're going to have one mate through out your life...you need to test the waters and 'get it out of your system'. It's all about happy mediums though. That's not an excuse to go tramping around.

[bboyneko]

Originally posted by sensitiv
i think that someone who can obstain from sex is a strong person. i personally think its a good thing. theres been too much emphasis on sex in our culture making it sounds like not doing it is bad. I disagree with all that. I just respect peoples personal decisions.

Let's re-phrase your words:

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i think that someone who can obstain from buying fast food or going to the mall is a strong person. i personally think its a good thing. theres been too much emphasis on fast food and consumerism in our culture making it sounds like not doing it is bad.
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Just because someone is strong from abstaining from something emphasized in our culture doesnt make IT a bad thing, or the person abstaining a better person than anyone who indulged.

And it's not just our culture that emphasizes sex, its our hormones. Its natural. Its why we are all here. So again, i think that the level of taboo placed on sexual matters and the degree of value placed on someone who has not had sex is ridiculous.

[iminxtc]

anybody up for some debauchery? yeah im talking to you dan.

[Muramasa]

:ohshit:

[lupitanahsee]

Originally posted by bboyneko


Let's re-phrase your words:

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i think that someone who can obstain from buying fast food or going to the mall is a strong person. i personally think its a good thing. theres been too much emphasis on fast food and consumerism in our culture making it sounds like not doing it is bad.
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Just because someone is strong from abstaining from something emphasized in our culture doesnt make IT a bad thing, or the person abstaining a better person than anyone who indulged.

And it's not just our culture that emphasizes sex, its our hormones. Its natural. Its why we are all here. So again, i think that the level of taboo placed on sexual matters and the degree of value placed on someone who has not had sex is ridiculous.

I completely agree with this; however, in this day and age, i believe abstinance is not such a bad thing. condoms may protect you from HIV and pregnancy, but it does not from those nasty little skin surfers (herpes and warts). i wouldn't think someone who abstains is "more pure" than anyone else, just a whole lot safer.

[discoball]

I think it would be sad if you marry a virgin and they end up being totally horrible in bed. I believe that sex is very important factor in a relationship, but of course, it can't BE the only thing the relationship is about.

[bboyneko]

Originally posted by lupitanahsee


I completely agree with this; however, in this day and age, i believe abstinance is not such a bad thing. condoms may protect you from HIV and pregnancy, but it does not from those nasty little skin surfers (herpes and warts). i wouldn't think someone who abstains is "more pure" than anyone else, just a whole lot safer.

same with someone who washes their hands a lot, or gets a flue shot every year. But they shouldn't be considered morally superior to someone who does not, simply more hygenic

[bboyneko]

Originally posted by discoball
I think it would be sad if you marry a virgin and they end up being totally horrible in bed. I believe that sex is very important factor in a relationship, but of course, it can't BE the only thing the relationship is about.

yes but its roughly 50% of why long-term relationships work. If the sex is bad the relationship is guaranteed to be doomed

[CrystalEyes]

Why do most guys think virgin girls are sooooo special and girls that aren't are such sluts??? :rolleyes: .... I personally have only been with a handful of people so I am hardly a slut .... but one of my female friends uses her "virginity" as a pick-up line for men ..... she lost her virginity when she was 16 .... lol ..... but she says that men are attracted to her more when they think she is a virgin... :shrugs: .... I cant figure it out!!! lol

[bboyneko]

if i hear virgin from someone over 18 ill run! not cus they are 'bad' per se but i dont want someone to cling to me because often people do with their first sexual partner

[badkitty3804]

so true.

Everyone clings to thier first :afterbuzz:

[DaMetroGnome]

I was a virgin until I was 18...but I was cured a few months later. It was all a matter of timing and opportunity...and neither of us were clingy.

As far as marrying a virgin...:nono: I wouldn't buy a car I haven't test-driven either...

[badkitty3804]

at 18 it's a bit easier to be cling free.

A lot of people these days lose it earlier, generally before they can handle it emotionally.

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[DeAtHmOnGeR bEaR]

:haha:

[DaMetroGnome]

Are you the master of your domain?

[DeAtHmOnGeR bEaR]

Originally posted by DaMetroGnome
Are you the master of your domain?

Wow... I just got lost..

Must be that blonde thing again :delirious:

[DaMetroGnome]

It's a "seinfeld" reference, when they all had a contest to see who wouldn't fap the longest. If you didn't do the deed, you were still the "master of your domain."

[Muramasa]

Originally posted by DaMetroGnome
It's a "seinfeld" reference, when they all had a contest to see who wouldn't fap the longest. If you didn't do the deed, you were still the "master of your domain."

:doh:

You just spoiled it!!1!
:slap:

[DaMetroGnome]

:dammit:

[DeAtHmOnGeR bEaR]

Eh. I've seen every Seinfeid almost....

As I said, I'm blonde... I tend to forget things easily :yes:

Can't talk! Family Guy is on!

[Jungle_Love]

Being a virgin could be a goog thing or a bad thing. Depending on which angle you approach it at. (hehe). When i lost my virginity, i felt more confident about myself. Like i didnt have to be afraid of it anymore. whatever

Abstanence wastes batteries!!

[Jungle_Love]

Yeah:touchmymonkey:

[Muramasa]

SLUT!!!1!!!



























:jk:

[Muffysadj]

A funny story: My **** of a mother once said that if I graduated from college a virgin, she would throw me a "Virgin Party" & invite all of my friends! Man, if my over-active sex drive wasn't an incentive to dispense with my virginity, this party offer WAS!

Oh yeah, I was almost 19 when I finally did the dirty deed. I waited by choice. Muffy

[badkitty3804]

wow.

That is pretty strange.

[SexySarah]

Originally posted by badkitty3804
wow.

That is pretty strange.

:werd:

[Muffysadj]

Originally posted by badkitty3804
I wish I were still a virgin. That would be such a great pick-up line.

Kitty, you could always lie!

muffy

[Jungle_Love]

I think of myself as a reborn virgin. Does that count??

[Muramasa]

:no:


It's a toss-up... I wish I was a virgin so I could save it for the right person, but on the other hand, it's good to have experience so that when you do find the right person, the experience is much more likely to be a highly enjoyable one.

[badkitty3804]

Originally posted by Muffysadj


Kitty, you could always lie!

muffy

Lies make baby jeebus cry. :yes:

[keokikim02]

it's so funny coz like... i'm a korean american and a lotta koreans and also i hafta add... koreans that are christian are all about being a virgin... it's so funny when i watch like... korean dramas and stuff.. coz they even make holding hands and kissing such a big deal... and that's why i think the traditional korean way or any asian way sux coz like... they're so oppressed sexually they hafta come up with stuff like.. hentai and shit... i mean :wtf: but yeah... i didn't want mine to be taken away.. but it happened... :angryasian:

that's why jap girls are freaks,... real~~~ freaks... :chilly:


*bump charly*... when's ur trip to japan again?

[Muramasa]

:whoa:

Hey!! That trip to japan is strictly business, I told you!!
:D:D:D

[keokikim02]

chah lee san....

haha... that's what a jap girl would call you.. hehe... :raveon:

[badkitty3804]

Is that japanese for 'Hooker'?

[Muramasa]

*dies*
I don't know what you two are talking about.:angel:

[keokikim02]

no just charly.... chah lee... and san is what they always attach at the end... :shrug:

[Muramasa]

I know kung-fu.

[keokikim02]

hwaaaaah~~~~

[Muramasa]

:afterbuzz:

C'mon Kristene, let's go dance at a 7-11 again!!:D
:eddie:

[The Drifter]

I have abstained from the dirty deed for almost 2 years now and feel fine about it. Sure when I was younger I chased every pice of tail I could but I grew up and relized that I would rather have sex with somebody who cares about me and will bring that kind of passion to bed then some frat mattress.

[punkasschikadee]

Originally posted by lupitanahsee


I completely agree with this; however, in this day and age, i believe abstinance is not such a bad thing. condoms may protect you from HIV and pregnancy, but it does not from those nasty little skin surfers (herpes and warts). i wouldn't think someone who abstains is "more pure" than anyone else, just a whole lot safer.

good job. yes, abstinence is totally safer. i just cant stand it when bitches get into bed with anything (with no protection) and then go cry about being pregnant... only to abort their baby...thats a whole different topic though

[Muramasa]

:siihp:

[tigermomma]

I lost mine when I was 18, my first sexual boyfriend was my kids father, I got pregnant when I was 19. I could have abstained with quite a different result for my life right now I think. I didnt take my virginity as a good thing though, I was just too shy and introverted to take it past first or second base when I was in high school.

College, frat parties, and VTech debauchery changed that. :-p

[Mitaic]

Originally posted by Buddafly
one of my friends thought that by dating only virgins she'd have a better chance at finding a guy that wouldn't treat her like shit.

I find that theory faulty.

I just gave her a :slap: and left it at that.

If she dates a guy who may or may not be a virgin but respect her choice to remain one, I say props to him.

[Mitaic]

Originally posted by keokikim02
it's so funny coz like... i'm a korean american and a lotta koreans and also i hafta add... koreans that are christian are all about being a virgin... it's so funny when i watch like... korean dramas and stuff.. coz they even make holding hands and kissing such a big deal... and that's why i think the traditional korean way or any asian way sux coz like... they're so oppressed sexually they hafta come up with stuff like.. hentai and shit... i mean :wtf: but yeah... i didn't want mine to be taken away.. but it happened... :angryasian:

that's why jap girls are freaks,... real~~~ freaks... :chilly:


*bump charly*... when's ur trip to japan again?

well... white men in the 1800s masturbate to women with naked ankles...

today thongs aren't even enough for some people...

go figure.

[badkitty3804]

*ANNOUNCEMENT*

I have decided to become celibate.
:yes:

[PasteGirl4Evey]

I'm saving myself for Evey. :affection:

[LadyJ]

:thumbsup:
I understand that you can channel your sexual energy into other parts of your life in order to increase productivity and focus.

[badkitty3804]

That's a fancy was of saying 'sexual frustrations give you extra energy to do stuff'. :yes:

haha...i'm already showing the signs, The guys kept pointing out on Saturday night that I was chewing ice and peeling labels off of my beer.

[blewmymindblank]

Oh really...I have a lot of energy that needs to be channeled, do you know the secret of making this progression from sexual energy to productive?

[LadyJ]

:gotme:

[blewmymindblank]

:bookonraves: guess I'll just have to stick with the sex then :delirious::afterbuzz::delirious:

[LadyJ]

Honestly, that sounds like a better plan. Who needs to be THAT productive anyway? :delirious:

[blewmymindblank]

:werd:

plus sex is more fun :yes:

[tigermomma]

Originally posted by badkitty3804
*ANNOUNCEMENT*

I have decided to become celibate.
:yes:

 

:werd: I'm getting to that point too, but for different reasons I think :wink:

[bboyneko]

Originally posted by lupitanahsee


I completely agree with this; however, in this day and age, i believe abstinance is not such a bad thing. condoms may protect you from HIV and pregnancy, but it does not from those nasty little skin surfers (herpes and warts). i wouldn't think someone who abstains is "more pure" than anyone else, just a whole lot safer.

Same with people who 'abstain' from kissing, because mouth-to-mouth kissing transmits all kinds of germs

[iminxtc]

not only is sex fun...it burns calories as well!

[bboyneko]

http://www.jehovahswitnessonline.com/images/girlshorny.jpg

[lupitanahsee]

Originally posted by badkitty3804
*ANNOUNCEMENT*

I have decided to become celibate.
:yes:

welcome to the world of endless frustration... i have been a member for quite some time now.

[bboyneko]

theres always bumble balls and lube

[Sarawithanh]

Originally posted by FavoriteMistake
i only know one virgin. :shrug:

suprisingly...4 of my close friends are virgins....even one of my guy friends was a virgin, but he lost it last yr

[Jet Pilot]

they might not be abstaining but maybe you just don't unbderstand what they want you to do. and untill they think you know what their talking about then you won't get any.

Yea i know it's not fair, but that's why women are so freckin confusing.

[BestBoardHooker]

we are not confusing! you just lack the mental capacity to properly understand us!

[Jet Pilot]

well if you girls stop talking for 20 min, then we could get a question in so everyone would be on the same page.

[A.J. Inx]

...:gotme:...

I don't understand anyone, apparently...

Celibacy, though, isn't a bad thing... I'm wrather enjoying it at the moment. I feel like I've got my head screwed on better now that I'm not constantly tormenting myself over a boy/girl...

[maynard]

It's definitely not as bad as I would have thought. :shrug:

[A.J. Inx]

It's the truth... :shrug:

[EurotrashEve]

Originally posted by A.J. Inx
...:gotme:...

I don't understand anyone, apparently...

Celibacy, though, isn't a bad thing... I'm wrather enjoying it at the moment. I feel like I've got my head screwed on better now that I'm not constantly tormenting myself over a boy/girl...
:smooch: I love this girl..fuggin tell it as is.
Yes..even though I'm all secure with my sexuality and like to flaunt it...I'm really just a tease..you know (atleast to boys)...that's what makes me evil as a girl. My sex is dancing..I flirt alot but it's only heavy flirtation nothing beyond & I don't go home with ppl unless they are friends and I can trust them.

[RITMGuy]

One of my closer friends is a virgin. She hates it to death, she tells me that about 14 days after her period that she gets the horniest (if I have to hear it, so do all of you). But she was taught, in her respective religion, that it was against God to have sex before marriage. And even though she is hot as hell, a damn fine piece of work, I have always respected her decision and not thrown my ugly ass on her. But look at it like this: You do test drive a car before you buy it. Same with a spouse. You shoudl always test before you buy.

But I've been celibate for two months now (not by choice) and I do feel a little better not having to keep trying for another fix. But one does miss the companionship of a relationship, and of course the sex.

[velvetgoldmire]

Originally posted by LilSunnyGirl
we are not confusing! you just lack the mental capacity to properly understand us!
It's like the old saying goes.

girls are too crazy for guys; guys are too stupid for girls.

[krazylittleangel]

MY MILKSHAKE:patricia: