I had a blast at Destination last Sat , I just have one more question for the ladies?

[Beaker]

I was dancing my ass off at Dest this past sat, and this girll Julia comes up to me and is like you are an amazing dancer and I said thank you , she asked me , my name and I told her , I was Beaker she said she loved my hair and I started blushing . Why is it that girls can come up to me and tell me these things about my dancing , but after that , there's nothing else like say , getting to hang out with that person afterwards or being invited to an after party , like all my other friends ?I'm really starting to feel left out . What's wrong here am I missing something ? Have girls no interest in me at all , has everyone else lost interest in me , what the ****? Oh well . I just had to get that off my mind . I'm really , really starting to feel not welcomed by peeps anymore at parties ? I thought peeps loved having me around . I guess not.

:scared: Beaker

[maynard]

Look man, just because a few chicks don't jump your bones at a party doesn't mean that everyone hates having you around. Society tries to program you into thinking that life is essentially void and worthless without constant love interests. It's all bullshit.

Just live your life, let shit come to you.

[badkitty3804]

Beaker, did you ever think to ASK her what she was doing afterwards? Alot of girls prefer for guys to make that step...

[DeAtHmOnGeR bEaR]

Awwww.... Beaker! I love you, man!
I'll jump your bones next week, don't worry....hehehehe

:hitit: :sexaddict:

[maynard]

For real. Sometimes you've just gotta ante up and put the vibe out there. And be persistent, but not to the point of being annoying.

[Beaker]

I'm not talking about someone jumping me , I just want to feel welcomed at parties damit . I use to feel really good at parties a while back and now , it just seems like I'm just another boring person . When I know I'm a energetic person , who loves dancing for the sake of dancing . Bad kitty what the ****? I know how to talk to girls , I just don't know what to say all the time that's all .


:scared: :slap: Bad Kitty :scared: Beaker

[Muramasa]

"So, do you live around here?"
"Do you come here often?"
"Can I buy you a drink?"

Just be sincere and you'll be fine... I've met you, and I think you're pretty cool.:yes:

[DeAtHmOnGeR bEaR]

Hehehe.. j/k hon
If it makes you feel any better, I always get a smile on my face when I see you at parties! Maybe it's just time for a break, is all?

[Beaker]

I'm gonna continue to go out and have fun , I guess if some chick wants to talk to me then she can , all I know is that I'm gonna keep on dancing . Funshine , your name reminds me of a track that Feelgood remixed with a Michael Jackson song , even thou in the vocals it goes something like don't blame it on the sunshine , don't blame it on the moonlight, don't blame it on the sunshine etc.

:scared: Beaker

[maynard]

But in essence, it just seems like you're saying you feel unwelcomed because you didn't get anywhere with this girl. That's not true, man. I watched as my girlfriend walked all the way across the dance floor to say hello to you.

Eventually a girl's gonna come along who you won't have to "try" to impress, she's gonna be all about you just for who you are. Waiting for that time to come, even if it's a ways off, is better IMO than dating girls who suck. Trust me, I know this from experience. Just be yourself and you should be fine.

[Beaker]

Maynard , I don't dance to impress some chick. I dance because that's what I love to do period . so there.


:scared: Beaker

[Muramasa]

Originally posted by maynard
But in essence, it just seems like you're saying you feel unwelcomed because you didn't get anywhere with this girl. That's not true, man. I watched as my girlfriend walked all the way across the dance floor to say hello to you.

Eventually a girl's gonna come along who you won't have to "try" to impress, she's gonna be all about you just for who you are. Waiting for that time to come, even if it's a ways off, is better IMO than dating girls who suck. Trust me, I know this from experience. Just be yourself and you should be fine.
:werd:

Girls don't want a guy who has to try to impress them, they want one that does amazing things without effort. It's not about being super wonderful, either... it's about clicking. Eventually a girl will come along and you'll just know what to say, what to do, etc, because you'll be able to read her. It's all a matter of effort... where to put it, and when.:shrug:

I guess what I'm saying is yeah... you'll be ok man.

[badkitty3804]

you tell him beaker!

hehe. Dancing is dancing, not a tool to impress. :D

[DeAtHmOnGeR bEaR]

Shiiiiit... I dunno what YOU'RE talkin bout Kitty... I was tryin to impress you all night long ;)
Hehehe

[Beaker]

typical of people not hearing me . Once again I don't go out to dance to impress some chick I dance , because I love to dance . I go to have a good time .


:scared: Beaker

[maynard]

Originally posted by Beaker
Maynard , I don't dance to impress some chick. I dance because that's what I love to do period . so there.


:scared: Beaker

I never said you were dancing to impress anyone.

[badkitty3804]

You totally copping a feel of my chest. That soooo won my heart. *swoon*

[Beaker]

funshine what's your deal anyways?

[maynard]

Originally posted by badkitty3804
You totally copping a feel of my chest. That soooo won my heart. *swoon*

Well Funshine, looks like she's all yours. Good luck!

[Beaker]

not you maynard so chill .

:slap: Maynard

:scared: Beaker

[KlondikeTW v2.0]

Well if you go out to dance and have a good time, stop worrying about what everyone else thinks of you. You're contradicting yourself all over the place.

If a girl comes up to you out of nowhere, she's obviously somewhat interested. Just ask her what she's doing and go with it.

[Beaker]

:scared: Beaker

[badkitty3804]

chill out hon.

Everyone's just putting in thier 2 cents :D

[badkitty3804]

Side Note:

Space girl has a great rack:
http://sideshowbob.darkravers.net/destination0719/SSB_0240.JPG

[maynard]

Cody exists solely to piss people off. :shrug:

[Beaker]

I'm done talking so whatever give me your two cents and I'll give you my :fu: cents


:scared: Beaker

[Kuro]

Originally posted by Beaker
Why is it that girls can come up to me and tell me these things about my dancing , but after that , there's nothing else like say , getting to hang out with that person afterwards or being invited to an after party , like all my other friends ?


Originally posted by badkitty3804
Beaker, did you ever think to ASK her what she was doing afterwards? Alot of girls prefer for guys to make that step...


Originally posted by maynard
For real. Sometimes you've just gotta ante up and put the vibe out there. And be persistent, but not to the point of being annoying.

What they said. Maybe these girls are all approaching you and then walking away wondering why you didn't seem interested and now they're on some other message board asking "what's wrong with me?"

[Beaker]

oh yeah!:smooch: SpaceGirl

:scared: Beaker

[DeAtHmOnGeR bEaR]

Originally posted by Beaker
funshine what's your deal anyways?

My deal? Maybe it's cause I'm blonde, but I'm not quite sure what you mean by that :)

[Beaker]

then get back to me asap.



:scared: Beaker

[KlondikeTW v2.0]

I have no idea how I pissed him off. I think some medication is in order and NOT for me.

[Muramasa]

*types and deletes*

[the sex molesters]

man... don't try to meet chicks at parties. it doesn't work. and, at least for me, if i DO get drunk enough to go home with someone from a party i have always regretted it the next day. meet girls in real life. take them to parties if you and they wish. that's the best way to work it i think. and just go to parties to listen to good music, DANCE, and have a good time. stop worrying about whether you are "welcome" there or what such and such girl is saying to you.... that doesn't matter. what matters is that you are living life to the fullest!

[RYU]

Dude I have hung with U a few times and if I recall everyone is qwuite welcoming and embracing towards U.

Next time U go try to expand the conversation like what her interest are or were she works goes to school etc...
If U concentrate on just 1 aspect then U will be lost but if U can roll with the punches ( Witch I know U can.) Then U got it...

[the sex molesters]

or if you do what ryu does and mack on all the ladies, then maybe you'll go home with one?? hehehe

[KlondikeTW v2.0]

Maybe U should you use you instead...that really impresses the ladies.

[Gizmo]

my bones got jumped after dancing with a girl on Saturday... :wink:

[evey]

Geting your bones jumped rocks! :raveon:

[El Magnifico]

I dance to relieve stress and stuff. Sometimes people come up to me and tell me I look like MC Hammer on crack. Then I say thanks and punch them in the face. Then they go away. I wonder why.:shrug:

[KlondikeTW v2.0]

You look like MC Hammer on crack Humpty!
That's alright cuz my body's in motion
It should look like a fit or a convulsion

[Gizmo]

~does the humpty hump~

[evey]

Anyone can play this game!
This is my dance y'all, Humpty Hump's my name!

[RYU]

Originally posted by djinergy
or if you do what ryu does and mack on all the ladies, then maybe you'll go home with one?? hehehe :haha: :haha: :haha: SARCASM at it's best!
Yeah it's a number's game. U sell your self like in sales.
Sooner or later U will umm get ever U are looking for.
As long as U are willing to put yourself out there.
The better U get the better your "ahem" closing ratio becomes...cough..:afterbuzz:

Originally posted by El Magnifico
I dance to relieve stress and stuff. Sometimes people come up to me and tell me I look like MC Hammer on crack. Then I say thanks and punch them in the face. Then they go away. I wonder why.:shrug: Umm maybe the Puffy MC Hammer Sweat's? :smurf: Ow!! I can tell U why they go away..:owned: LOL Yeah U are a great dancer man!:thumbsup:

[pluryou]

:smooch: Beaker you have and always will be a cool person! I dont see a problem here.

Maybe the ladies are shy... I know I am. Sorry, I dont have any other info. Not good at this stuff.

Good seeing ya Sat. :) Luv ya.

[pluryou]

Oh and follow Ryu. He leads the way!!

Thats actually the 1st thing that popped in my head. Jokinly though. :)

Where were you Sat Ryu... I was there. :P

[RYU]

I think U had to much moonshine!
U never called back! Grr...
Or answered your pm's!

I couldn't go.
It was my little bro's b-day.

I did get a call from U sometime sat but I didn't check my voice
messages till sunday cause I was so busy.
sorry. :(

PS Beaker everyone know's U da man.
Now must raelize what everyone else knows!:raveon:

[KlondikeTW v2.0]

That's it, I'm going to censor "U."

[Gizmo]

oh baby U
got what I neeeeed
but U say he’s just a friend
but U say he’s just a friend

[evey]

Originally posted by KlondikeTW v2.0
That's it, I'm going to censor "U."

But not "u", right? :shrug:

[RYU]

Originally posted by KlondikeTW v2.0
That's it, I'm going to censor "U." ??
But DUDE GREAT AVATAR!!:raveon:

[Buddafly]

*types, thinks better of it- and deletes*

[PizzaTheSlut]

Beaker.....

This may already go without saying, but why don't you start off by telling these girls your real name? Do you honestly think that any self respecting female is going to take someone seriously when you give them a fourth grade playground nickname?
Secondly, people think of you as an uninteresting and boring person because it's what you are. The "love" which you believed you were receiving from everyone is actually what the rest of the world defines as pity (much as you would pity a wounded dog on the side of the road).
Further more, do you expect us to fall faint at your statement of "I dance because I love to dance." as some testament to (**edited**) your depth of character? You dance because you love to dance just as a painter paints because (oh my god!!!!) THEY LOVE TO PAINT. Well, no shit beaker.
Perhaps you should work on improving your social skills, conversation, interaction with the female populous (unless you really believe her panties should drop because of "good dancing,"), and general attitude towards life. What you should stop doing is expecting a river of tears and sympathy for the fact that you didn't get to go home with some girl who gave you a compliment on your dancing. Of course you probably hold her at fault for not finding any other topics in which to engage you with and walking away. **edited**.
Or you could just skip all this and do what should have been done from the start:
If you feel like you don't have any friends, GO MAKE SOME, and stop sniveling.


*edited by BK - If you have any questions as to why, PM me.*

[The Logic Theorist]

Talk about dredging up an old thread. Isn't there someplace more recent you could have picked to insult someone?

[PizzaTheSlut]

This chick said if I did it she'd stop stalking me. I've been awake for three days because she keeps banging on the doors of my apt at all hours of the night. I HAVE TO SLEEP!

[Article One]

holy fucking july batman.

[Charran]

Originally posted by PizzaTheSlut
Beaker.....

This may already go without saying, but why don't you start off by telling these girls your real name? Do you honestly think that any self respecting female is going to take someone seriously when you give them a fourth grade playground nickname?
Secondly, people think of you as an uninteresting and boring person because it's what you are. The "love" which you believed you were receiving from everyone is actually what the rest of the world defines as pity (much as you would pity a wounded dog on the side of the road).
Further more, do you expect us to fall faint at your statement of "I dance because I love to dance." as some testament to (**edited**) your depth of character? You dance because you love to dance just as a painter paints because (oh my god!!!!) THEY LOVE TO PAINT. Well, no shit beaker.
Perhaps you should work on improving your social skills, conversation, interaction with the female populous (unless you really believe her panties should drop because of "good dancing,"), and general attitude towards life. What you should stop doing is expecting a river of tears and sympathy for the fact that you didn't get to go home with some girl who gave you a compliment on your dancing. Of course you probably hold her at fault for not finding any other topics in which to engage you with and walking away. **edited**.
Or you could just skip all this and do what should have been done from the start:
If you feel like you don't have any friends, GO MAKE SOME, and stop sniveling.


*edited by BK - If you have any questions as to why, PM me.*

Geez, somenone has woken up on the wrong side of the bed... with a big chip on their shoulder... Do you even know him at all?

[Buddafly]

I think lucas hopes he can hide behind a SN...

weaksauce... expecially in a thread from july. :rolleyes:

[A.J.]

:lame:

[DeAtHmOnGeR bEaR]

:nono:

I know Lucas has met Beaker before......

He might be a little harsh, but he's only saying his opinion.

And by Beaker posting on a public forum, he's opening himself for all the opinions out there.

mkay?

[tranKwilized]

Hello, thread from July.



Goodbye, thread from July.

:ontome:

[DeAtHmOnGeR bEaR]

:hifive:

Yah right?
This should have been left alone after Em touched it.....

:byebye:

[mtd2003]

Originally posted by Funshine
:hifive:

Yah right?
This should have been left alone after Em touched it.....

:byebye:

Didn't Beaker meet and subsequently marry some girl at that ROAR event last September?

Or was he just presiding over the ceremony?

[Buddafly]

Originally posted by Funshine
:nono:

I know Lucas has met Beaker before......

He might be a little harsh, but he's only saying his opinion.

And by Beaker posting on a public forum, he's opening himself for all the opinions out there.

mkay?

he's dredging up old drama that is quite over and done with.

it's :lame:

I'm not defending beaker by any means- I'm just pointing out the obvious.

I think this thread needs a padlock now.

[MaryAnarchy]

is beaker still with tina? i think they broke up.

beaker are you still with tina?

[MaryAnarchy]

yay edited threads.

[RYU]

Wait was is this thread still doing alive?

[Valencia Styles]

i'm asking myself the same thing..... ?????

[Charran]

:klondike: :yes:

[obsol33t]

whoa thread necromancy.

ey yo beaker, waht up? u comin back for winterbreak?

[badkitty3804]

Just let the thread die guys.

[buzzboy]

Originally posted by PizzaTheSlut
This chick said if I did it she'd stop stalking me. I've been awake for three days because she keeps banging on the doors of my apt at all hours of the night. I HAVE TO SLEEP!


no offense to you (cause that shit is petty and lame) but, that is a pretty 12 year old way to be a dick ....don't you think?:sadblue:

[MaryAnarchy]

or we could change the thread to a positive note. like about how cute chris' avatar is.

[bbjohnson]

thats not cute, it kinda scary, he looks kinda pissed off.

[MaryAnarchy]

nah it's a cute little pissed off cartoon cat.

[orangeglow]

I think its another one of Chris' cryptic avatars...

But this one is way more friendly than most of them :D

[zartan]

oh god, please let this thread die. please?

[MaryAnarchy]

it won't die when we keep replying to it. including you, mister.

this thread is great
FOR ME TO POOP ON

[elad]

hey yo, is Destinations back at the DCs Tunnels? :confused:ssssssssss

[MaryAnarchy]

yeah.

sasha and digweed are playing there this saturday.
for only $50!!!!!!!!!!!!

[RYU]

Originally posted by Valencia Styles
i'm asking myself the same thing..... ?????

My shoulder is no longer in Ur pic!:crying:


Now if U would just stop staring at me it would all be good...
:afterbuzz: